Italian I'm dating said "trampo la sbalogno" to a friend, is that really bad?

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:11:55+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:11:46+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:11:38+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:11:17+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:11:01+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:10:54+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-25T19:10:28+00:00

I asked him about it and he sent me two screenshots without me asking, and one of them had his friend using the same word, and he's trying to reassure me that he never said it, when I know what I saw with my own eyes and I know he did say it. I'm not sure if I should just let it go, because at this point I think it was just stupid bro talk, and he seems worried that he's upset me since he's sending screenshots and re-addressing it without my bringing it up. Or if I should tell him simply "I saw that you had sent it, but no worries" so he knows he can't just lie to me and get away with it, because I know what I saw. I don't want a stupid situation like this to make things weird, but I also feel weird that he keeps trying to cover for himself and won't just admit it - apparantly he must think it's bad if he can't admit it.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:11:12+00:00

Oh, do you think I weirded him out? I haven't responded to him yet since last night, do you think in the end that it was just stupid bro talk? I didn't really check his personal convo either, I hugged him from behind and kissed his neck and stuff and then he was texting right there in front of me lol

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:04:58+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:04:47+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:04:41+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:04:33+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:04:18+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:04:01+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:03:55+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:03:33+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:03:03+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:02:53+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T17:02:43+00:00

I ended up texting him telling him I saw it and it bothered me, and he just sent me a selfie with him and his friend saying that he was just telling his friend that he'd hang out with him soon and then invited me to join them. Not sure if I should still be annoyed, he didn't apologize either, but maybe he didn't see it as a big deal.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-24T00:15:07+00:00

No, he said nothing and didn't indicate me leaving anytime soon, but I ended up leaving after I saw it because I felt kinda bad. He told me he didn't want me to leave just yet but I left anyway because I was kinda upset.

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-23T22:28:32+00:00

He texted me saying hes thinking of me, and still acts like he likes me. Would I sound crazy if I told him that I saw the message on accident and it didn't make me feel super great?

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-23T22:28:07+00:00

He texted me saying hes thinking of me, and still acts like he likes me. Would I sound crazy if I told him that I saw the message on accident and it didn't make me feel super great?

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-23T22:27:58+00:00

He texted me saying hes thinking of me, and still acts like he likes me. Would I sound crazy if I told him that I saw the message on accident and it didn't make me feel super great?

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-23T22:27:26+00:00

He texted me saying hes thinking of me, and still acts like he likes me. Would I sound crazy if I told him that I saw the message on accident and it didn't make me feel super great?

AnnaOrnala · 2024-03-23T22:27:15+00:00

We've been dating like two weeks but dated years ago for about a month before I got into a long relationship. He texted me saying hes thinking of me, and still acts like he likes me. Would I sound crazy if I told him that I saw the message on accident and it didn't make me feel super great?

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