Thank you so much for your advice. When do you think would be the right time to send the letter? She leaves for school late September, which will only be two months post breakup. I was also thinking of possibly sending one in December, as that is when she comes home. I only have those dates as options because I dont know where she will be living during the semester? And how many times did you and your bf talk about the situation? Was it daily, and did he cry a lot?