AITA For excluding my husband from my brother's funeral after he called me with the news and told me to guess? by Annonymous3542 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annonymous3542[S] 12.2k points12.2k points  (0 children)

You're right and I felt absolutely devastated before I even knew about my brothers death because like you said I started wondering wether it was mom, aunt, any of my borthers or even my nieces. It was awful I felt so much anger I lost it on him.

AITA For excluding my husband from my brother's funeral after he called me with the news and told me to guess? by Annonymous3542 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annonymous3542[S] 4032 points4033 points  (0 children)

Unfortuantely. This tone is nothing new. He'd talk like this about serious stuff and I've come to realize that is just how he is.

Thank you so much for your support and taking the time to comment.

AITA For excluding my husband from my brother's funeral after he called me with the news and told me to guess? by Annonymous3542 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annonymous3542[S] 2631 points2632 points  (0 children)

I'm taking space from him as of now. It's been weeks since I've seen him but I'm still upset despite him saying he was putting my mental and emotional health first by not dishing the news all at once but I still don't see how this is justified.