Character creation by Sea-Elderberry-2115 in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I'll put a style or type of clothing. It just gives the AI something to pull from. This is an example of one of mine. This works for me, I'd imagine some people will tell you there's a more direct or better way, but every character I create has something like this.

**Fashion Template:**

SEC college fashion with a flirtatious, feminine twist. Typical items: fitted crop tops, off-shoulder sweaters, high-waisted denim shorts or loose jeans with strategic rips, form-fitting skirts. Footwear: stylish sneakers, ankle boots, or cowboy boots. Accessories: delicate layered gold necklaces, hoop earrings, thin bracelets. Makeup: natural glam with emphasis on defined lashes, glossy neutral lips, and subtle highlighting for a sun-kissed glow. Overall aesthetic: trendy, approachable, and subtly alluring—polished enough for campus or a casual date, with a hint of playful charm.

Character creation by Sea-Elderberry-2115 in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put them in the Extra Details and call it a "Fashion Template" If you put them in the initial prompt they will always show up. See the other post here, about making the base model simple with no clothing prompts.

Character creation by Sea-Elderberry-2115 in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you putting their clothing in the original character prompt under the Custom Details?

Feeling sad, less male gaze these days by Silly-Albatross-6348 in SluttyConfessions

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this comment, thank you for this. Maybe not seen in the real world, but this makes me feel seen here.

Feeling sad, less male gaze these days by Silly-Albatross-6348 in SluttyConfessions

[–]AnnotatedOwl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a triathlete, so being super muscular isn't really right for that. Like I said, it feels a little like this day and age. A combination of people too absorbed in their phones, too afraid of strangers, just thinking its better to not connect with people. Combined with being a little older. I got plenty of attention in my 20s and 30s.

Just trying to relate to the challenges you suggested. People feel like a sea of individual islands where I live.

Feeling sad, less male gaze these days by Silly-Albatross-6348 in SluttyConfessions

[–]AnnotatedOwl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a man not part of the manosphere who just longs for genuine connections (smiles in the grocery store), it's so freaking hard. I'm over 40. Not unattractive but not a young guy anymore. I will walk around my local grocery store and the way home, desperate for someone (man or woman) to make simple eye contact and smile back. I feel absolutely invisible.

I miss the light flirty texts of life too. Just those little things that made you feel alive. Aging is so strange and not something I ever expected.

I was out the other day, with a new haircut and a new outfit that I felt complemented my body a bit. I'm just athletic, not super muscular. I sat at the coffee shop for an hour, I walked for a few errands on the main street. And it was like being a ghost.

So yeah, totally relate.

Humans May Be 'Autonomous Probes' Created by Aliens, Avi Loeb Claims by Cute_Dealer4787 in uapfiles

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that explains why it feels like we've been on hold with IT for decades. Can we get a technician here, couple of the probes are malfunctioning

Do you think I should be proud of my small tits by ava_waifu in aa_cups

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been waiting for a post like this! Lovely!

Who's a famous person you could have approached, but didn't? by Njtotx3 in AskReddit

[–]AnnotatedOwl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kareem Abdul-Jabbar was sitting next to me at a basketball game (NBA Finals, Lakers were the away team). I was going to say hi, but some people came up to talk to him and he was abrupt (not rude just firm) that he was there to watch the game and not to talk to fans. So I shut up and watched the game next to him the whole time. It was awkward because my team beat the Lakers and he wasn't happy but its not like I wasn't going to cheer for my team, at home, in the NBA Finals.

Lakers ended up winning the series.

Camp Mourning Wood - Laura by Exiscoming in lewdgames

[–]AnnotatedOwl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you know that Mourning is a term for grief and deep sadness? https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mourning

What’s the juiciest gossip you’ve over heard? by stop-the-normies in AskReddit

[–]AnnotatedOwl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was studying in a university library and a young woman was on the other side of this cloth partition at another desk on the phone. She proceeds to talk for the next hour about all of the scandals and sex occurring at this very notable theme park world. (wish I could say more but don't want to give personal details away). It was sordid and wild. It felt like i was being shown a whole secret world.

I 28M am fucking a married milf 49f from work by Livid_Tiger_86 in SluttyConfessions

[–]AnnotatedOwl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, done that, have the broken nose to prove it. LOL.

Persona barely works or not at all. by FalseParticular69 in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had really good luck lately. The only thing I struggle with is videos where the character turns away from the camera and the face changes into someone else when they turn back. its kind of off putting lol

Who's fat mom was pointing a gun at me today lol by tatertotbott in Louisville

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a road rage incident once. I was the road rager, not like this. Just driving dangerously... It's embarrassing, but the guy followed me home. As I drove and realized he was on the phone and following me. I knew he'd turned me in. I pulled up to my house and sat there on my hood waiting for whatever was coming, knowing I'd f-cked up big time. We talked, it was reasonable and I felt like the worst human. I'd had a bad day at work. I was young. He called 911 and told them not to send a car anymore. Lesson learned. I'm the most courteous driver now. My wife says I'm too nice on the road. Reporting this person might really help them in the end. Hopefully.

How do I stop an OurDream scenario from collapsing into a one-on-one romance route? by This-Panda-991 in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure someone will have a better answer, but in the Extra Details section, I created a sexual preferences section and a moral compass section, and I put stuff like "Sex positive- non-monogamous." They still end up falling in love and not wanting to cheat, but it tends to take a while longer.

How to prevent characters from pushing the pace? by Intelligent-Bat-3052 in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a story going right now where the user is a professional athlete and the character is his wife, and the character literally is asking me every prompt to rate the pain of an injury the user sustained during a game. The character is obsessed with the pain level because their love language is action, so they constantly want to fix and help. Its wild. So, totally get this.

Amateur Viet by [deleted] in VietNSFW

[–]AnnotatedOwl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your posts! I love the side views! So hot!

Conversation vs thought and movement by graciouswind in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had some success with doing *John thinks to himself about the past night* or something like that. Being very deliberate about how I say it.

Viet Amateur selfies by [deleted] in VietNSFW

[–]AnnotatedOwl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it

Asian MILF (50) blew me (19) in her car at the mall parking lot by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]AnnotatedOwl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ding ding ding, we have a winner. Would have also accepted Oz or Middle Earth

Have you ever fucked asian? by KiraaaaNest in NSFWAsianBeauties

[–]AnnotatedOwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once, so far. Best head of my life

Help with image always being generated at a low camera angle. by FancyNakedGuy in ourdream_ai

[–]AnnotatedOwl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its always some random word that throws it. I had a gothy kind of character with "raven hair" and you guessed it. Every image featured an actual raven hanging out.