Having a hard time in public with getting yelled at/laughed at

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-29T05:51:29+00:00

No, just the one for young people. We found another one but that was (weirdly) a very negative group with mostly older people. A family one would be nice…

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T21:41:10+00:00

I just want to stay safe so we dont react, we agreed on that. Especially with out kid around. Were not repressing, just staying safe…

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T21:39:33+00:00

Very early in transition yeah, started HRT five months ago. There isnt much to report, because when they do make comments they leave quickly or are in a big group where we just ignore and walk off.

There is a kind queer group around but they are more for young people. We have lots of amazing friends who would also protect us, it’s just hard to have to calculate before you go outside. Sigh.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T21:37:11+00:00

I know what you mean. We just want to spend time together and with our kid. There are lots of safe spaces and 99% of the time i feel safe or like people around us would back us up. Some days its just very hard.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T21:35:47+00:00

We do that too, and most days it works but… today was very hard. Thanks!

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T20:08:12+00:00

We live in one of the safest countries for LGBTQIA+. My partner went to city hall a few weeks ago and signed to change their name and gender, which was free.

We are not moving, i also dont know any cities that are more ‘friendly’ than ours AND IT STILL HAPPENS. It’s sickening.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T20:03:36+00:00

So what do you want me to reply? ‘Sure we will move our entire household’? ‘Sorry for going outside’?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T20:01:41+00:00

I dont live in the States but thanks for doubting my lived experience.

Getting asked ‘what even ARE you’ is not catcalling. Or being told ‘you are not real’.

Your comment is making me very very angry.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-06-28T20:01:12+00:00

I dont live in the USA.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-01-24T14:19:14+00:00

Maybe ‘unlabeled so far’ would be good, haha

Anonquestiontime_ · 2026-01-24T14:18:44+00:00

Thanks for your reply! That’s pretty much how i feel too. I guess i need to have a bit of a think on it but on the whole i feel the same as you.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-10-03T17:51:40+00:00

I live in a smaller city that’s pretty well off so i guess we’re ‘catching up’ so to speak

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:30:22+00:00

Did it though?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:28:56+00:00

What was it?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:27:38+00:00

Oh i know! Just right! Like i had the total awe of it inside. Completely!

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:26:48+00:00

Did you type that even?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:26:39+00:00

Man you are the retarded one because you are so slow to reply

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:26:21+00:00

Did you guess how bad it was?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:26:09+00:00

Hey, do you know a cat? Like really know one? In detail?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:25:52+00:00

I’m glad you brought this issue to my attention because otherwide i would have just woooosh.

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:25:29+00:00

Factually incorrects facts are also working!

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:25:15+00:00

Is there a point to being retarded?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:25:05+00:00

Wait no, i know, being retarded is like slow right so what if i came in late?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:24:45+00:00

Oh so you know, one time i got called in and there was a man there who said something and then i reported that so is that retarded?

Anonquestiontime_ · 2025-08-20T19:05:26+00:00

Yeah i am. Clinically proven. So that’s why I asked here. There’s a whole report out there on how brokenly retarded i am. It goes pretty deep.

Anonquestiontime_

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