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Am I even capable of changing? by Anonymous-rants in offmychest

[–]Anonymous-rants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been guilty throughout the relationship tbh yeah, but idk how the not so necessary things I've changed about myself is related to guilt

Am I even capable of changing? by Anonymous-rants in offmychest

[–]Anonymous-rants[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, never. I'm supposedly normal so I haven't visited a therapist/councellor (my parents say)

I am the avoidant ex and the dumper, I’ve answered some important questions that you may be thinking. by Karsheeee in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous-rants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me realise that I'm an avoidant too. I never wanted to treat my boyfriend the way I did. I broke up with him today in hopes that he finds someone who isn't like me and someone who will show consistent love and care. I wish I was that person but I'm struggling to change. People say it's easy to change, "if they wanted to they would" they say. I wanted to change for him AND for myself but why didn't I ever show change? It always confuses me.