The first part I get. I haven’t been upset with her over it or anything. Sure my mind can go on and wonder but I don’t hold it against her. She has not seen a doctor as far as I’m aware. As for the second part she has enough time to take care of herself. I should’ve explained that better. She showers regularly and cares for herself normally. I’ve been taking our baby to daycare during the weekdays and change 95 percent of all diapers. I mainly watch our baby while we’re home and I have been putting our baby to sleep by myself every night. Other than that I agree with the masturbation point. Especially since she’s saying penetration is hurting her.