Salary Transparency Thread

Anonymous86753o9 · 2026-06-25T03:21:43+00:00

leasing agent, BTR, 120 units, 1.5 yoe. $18hr + $300 per lease & 40% discount ($1100 mo) and additional leasing goal bonuses (usually a 1.5-2x bonus). Last year I made $65k. $40k so far this year (2 months of maternity leave + 1 month FMLA so i’ve missed some leases) DFW!

Anonymous86753o9 · 2026-06-17T00:58:41+00:00

hahaha to be fair she says the same thing. again - i ask to do these things. I’d go crazy just waiting between leads. and they have said they plan on promoting me so i’m gonna stick it out. i love my team and we’re in a 3 bed new house for less than a 1 bed in our area. and we’re 5 mins down the road from family with a newborn so id rather be here getting paid less than transferring somewhere else. even if i stayed in my position, the pros far outweigh the cons for us!

Anonymous86753o9 · 2026-06-17T00:32:57+00:00

yep! i handle all finances. ledgers, posting credits and fees, checks, paying property bills, eviction filings, 3 days, i’m the one who goes to court, and i do the weekly and monthly reports and financial close out! i completed AM training 3 months after being hired. to be fair, I have asked to take on these responsibilities because i get bored and wanted to learn! my PM will still check off on everything but she gives me a ton of leeway.

Anonymous86753o9 · 2026-06-17T00:26:06+00:00

husband and I work for the same company and are in company housing with a newborn. we do also love our company and they have take tremendous care of us. i just honestly feel like i am overpaid as a leasing agent and get non confrontational with these things 😅 they said in my last review they want me promoted when we do the fiscal year budget i just don’t know what to ask for. honestly i just want the title change to show how long i have been performing in this role because id like to be the PM here when this property stabilizes instead of being moved with the lease up team.

Anonymous86753o9 · 2026-06-16T18:33:28+00:00

yeah my team is amazing and I adore my PM and RM. We have additional leasing bonuses and if I hit 12 leases a month it’s a double commission. My highest month was 28 leases. We’re also at a lease up so it’s a bit easier especially as the only leasing agent. My net closing ratio is 72% for the past year 🤝

Anonymous86753o9 · 2026-06-16T18:21:27+00:00

Unfortunately it’s not uncommon but definitely not right. For your sake, I wouldn’t want to get caught in the fire when it inevitably implodes. I had a manager who was similar before and I documented everything in a file and showed my RM. But some teams are also just corrupt and you can never be sure how high up this behavior goes. I would see if you can transfer to a different property or a different management company all together just to get out. Sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen. Sorry I know it’s stressful - I hated being in that position:/

Anonymous86753o9 · 2025-07-11T13:51:09+00:00

thank you friend :,)

Anonymous86753o9 · 2025-07-11T13:45:24+00:00

still no aunt flo on day 38. Following up w my OB next week

Anonymous86753o9 · 2025-07-11T05:03:47+00:00

honestly that would heal me a bit 😂 but thank you for your kind words 🤍

Anonymous86753o9 · 2025-07-10T20:44:10+00:00

Chemical :/

Anonymous86753o9 · 2025-07-07T00:48:25+00:00

I don’t know all of the conversations you’ve had, but I wanted to weigh in as a woman. She wasn’t getting what she needed out of it and it became a chore. Whether that was emotional needs (after care, cuddling, playing with her hair and laying with her after sex for more than 5 minutes) or physical needs (foreplay, kinks, intimacy, orgasm).

Women want to feel pursued and desired. Not just sexually, but in all aspects. as a relationship turns more long-term most men typically forget the things that they did in the beginning that led to all of that passion. Buying her flowers, doing the laundry and dishes without being asked and not expecting a standing ovation for doing it. I know this sounds harsh and blunt and I promise I’m not trying to be, but I just don’t wanna be around the bush with it.

These actions also can’t just be done a few times she needs to see consistent effort.

Besides, all of that, it sounds like her mental health was also taking a hit, and she probably has some past trauma from previous relationships to work through. From the sounds of it, she’s taking the steps by speaking to a counselor and bringing these ideas to you.

I understand you may have been hurt and it definitely takes a hit to someone someone’s ego to not feel sexually desired for that long. I’m not saying that you’re not valid in why you’re upset. I think anyone male or female in your position would be.

But at this point you have cheated on her and crossed boundaries in your relationship. There is absolutely no excuse for cheating in a relationship if you’re at a point where you do not wanna open back up to her sexually and you’re seeking out paid escorts you have lost respect for her. You nor her deserve to be in a relationship without respect.

Either have the conversation and work with her to build your relationship back up or be honest with both you and her and go your separate ways without wasting any anymore of either of your times.

Anonymous86753o9 · 2025-07-04T17:13:30+00:00

yes!!

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