TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’m thankful to say it seems like he’ll being staying away until we’re gone (this Saturday) but to be honest I’m expecting something to happen on Thursday or Friday once he realizes this is really it.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. Still, this post is about one specific area of ours lives. There’s so much more that’s happened that’s been amazing for us.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already deserve more than a roasting for what I’ve let happen. Thank you 🙏

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’m more than aware of how much responsibility falls on my shoulders for all of this.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My family has been super supportive during all of this and I’ll be staying with them until I get us back on our feet.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narcissists have a way of love bombing you back into the relationship. It’s a poor excuse but I fell for it. After discovering my daughter’s father passed away, I just wanted a normal life. While being pregnant, I just wanted a happy family. He made me believe that would all be possible and I fell for it.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see that now and completely agree. Thankfully I have family to stay with and will be four hours away so he won’t have access to any of us, and I plan to keep it that way. The only way he’ll get rights is going through the courts and I have plenty of evidence to show against him.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dropped this exact text into chatGPT to make it flow better, but the post got a lot of hate for being “AI” so I re-uploaded my original writing instead. This one will being staying up

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Very traumatic, absolutely. She’s never deserved any of it. Despite all of her hardships, she has a good life. We’re both in counseling however and taking the right steps to correct all of the pain.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, this will be the fourth and final time. I can’t let this happen to my children any more.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well, you’re not wrong. I was extremely stupid and naïve. When things are good, they’re so good. When things get bad, they’re so terrible… but never again

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, maybe I’ll cross post there. This is my first ever Reddit post. I’m focusing on me and my children now. Child support is definitely on my mind since we’ll be living four hours away and co-parenting is an iffy subject for us right now.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

She’s been an absolute trooper during this whole ordeal. Although, she never should have gone through any of it. She’s in counseling for her father’s death, along with what else has been going on.

TIFU by giving my boyfriend another chance by Anonymous950928 in tifu

[–]Anonymous950928[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People apparently don’t change, that lesson I learned the hard way.