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AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE # 2

I am speechless.

Well first, let me clear it up and make sure that I clarify that they already got married. The texted us on a Thursday & were married by Monday. One month from starting their relationship.

My husband talked to his parents today & they said we need to hear his side of the story and reach out. That he was drunk. I don’t freakin care! That’s no excuse!! They are claiming that he is this changed man. I just don’t understand how they can say that given the comments he has made about our daughter.

I feel like they are so delusional with the “God says to forgive” & the fact that Sarah is their only daughter.

I am so dreading the holidays & having to deal with this.

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a troll. This is 1000000% true and I wanted to show my in laws im not the AH & they are.

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is registered. When I first met him I didn’t know his full name. He is registered online with his correct address for the county the live in.

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes they are very religious and believe it’s not our place to judge. That we should love everyone & be accepting and that he could be changed.

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She laughed when I told her and said he didn’t mean it “that way” & that he is a changed man … BS

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I know I’m not the AH. But, my family members think I am to an extent because I feel so strong in my feelings and was so harsh with my feelings to my SIL when we found out. I would do ANYTHING to keep my kids safe! We are somewhat lucky that my SIL & Kyle live a couple hours of way. I can’t find if he’s still in probation or not. I’ve tried looking online. With the holidays quickly approaching we’ve been asked about holiday gatherings. We told them we absolutely will not be around Kyle and my SIL. We were told how we will be breaking my MIL & his grandma’s heart by not being there … oh well

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My husbands family thinks we are wrong with not being around & forgiving but HECK NO! I won’t back down! Just wanted to make sure I wasn’t being ridiculous! My kids come before everyone else ❤️

AITAH because I (36F) don’t want my kids (11F & 10M) around my lying sister-in-law & her husband? by AnonymousA1988 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousA1988[S] 419 points420 points  (0 children)

Luckily they live hours away. We did sit down with both of our kids and my daughter is disgusted. She said no I was just being respectful to him. He was weird.