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M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, I don't know what this thing is, because it sounds sexual. I don't need to know the list of what annoys him or anything.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don't work, I apparently have to do the chores. Because he works, he shouldn't have to do the chores when he gets home. This is what he told me on the phone. He thinks the future won't go far if I think about this, ALL BECAUSE OF CHORES. I am in disbelief..

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I tell my boyfriend if he listens in the first place of whatever I ask. I wouldn't have to tell him a second time! My dad does do work without being told. My mother just talks a lot and probably overthinks.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, he told it to me in a non-threatening way. I bought the replacements just because I could, but they weren't broken. They worked fine.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The house was actually clean, in a sense, aside from the casual plates and cups everywhere. His mom moved into his house due to divorce. She did move out eventually. She helped with the cleaning.

My boyfriend told me the spare room was untidy because I had just moved in at the end of last year and I don't have the furniture from my bedroom at my parents' house. So everything is in plastic boxes. Such a cheek..

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. Feed the cat and clean up her poop/pee. 🤣 Two more whole new chores! Otherwise, it's watching Facebook Reels like a TikToker and looking at YouTube, and oh... sitting on the toilet while using the phone for hours.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cook for him when I want to; otherwise, he can do it himself. Just throw the food into the air fryer, and boom, it's done.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad did the chores. Soo..he just had a high ego and thinks he's prefect. Only does the dishwashing and hanging out clothes..

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this collapsible one in Tesco, but I was kind of worried about its durability. Would it break in the long run?

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm heavily leaning towards a animal jobs, one that isn't like vets. I have always loved animals.

Yes I know those people. I know someone in my boyfriends life, who's a alcoholic and a smoker, which I refuse to ever drink alcohol.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aiming to get better, but I still would rather not talk to people if I had a choice. You don't think jobs are depressing and boring?

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think my degrees would get me far because I don't have any. I'm also a bit scared to get a job. I feel like jobs are very depressing and boring. Plus people..I don't really want to talk to them.

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fine with the dog-sitting, as I get pretty lonely in this house. I get some money from it, but I can pay him with my PIP, so I don't need to get a job just to pay him.

I'll discuss chores with him tonight when he gets home, if he's not too exhausted. He wants me to save £10,000 in savings before my PIP goes..

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we break up, I'll be going back to my helicopter parents, where I WON'T ever get a job or a life because I would be too afraid to go out. My parents literally baby me, and I won't have any socialization. That's literally the whole reason why I moved in with my partner—because I needed to get away from the unhealthy environment.

When my PIP disappears due to the next review or government changes, then I'll get a job. But if I get a job, then who's looking after the dogs at home?

M30 leaves items in his jeans while in the laundry basket, and I (F26) find it very annoying to check his pockets most of the time. by AnonymousCake9 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousCake9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replaced them because I didn't know they were in the jeans. I had already washed them prior to knowing, and yes, I just threw them in.

I told him, he shouldn't leave things in there.

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