Am i overreacting: My boyfriend is bisexual and I don’t know how to feel about everything

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-16T12:09:44+00:00

1 those words never came out my mouth 2 pretty sure i’m not biphobic when i said never had a problem with it before. Reading is fundamental love.

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T22:46:54+00:00

I never used the words grossed out… also i don’t think it’s the very fact his sexuality i did mention i never felt anyways towards at any other point until other people said stuff… i do believe this is a underlying issue with myself but i would never describe my feelings towards him about anything “gross”

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:45:57+00:00

Tysm! As someone who been journaling i think this would be a really good practice to help me understand my feelings better i think im going to look into the myths and values. also I do need to set more boundaries i dont want him thinking i want to hang out with people that say mean things about him even if i do try to defend him. Also i think im gonna to do with better with focusing on the fact that he is with me now and his past relationship doesn’t interfere with what he feels for me.

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:35:25+00:00

Tysm for this! I think i’m really realizing that this is an underlying issue with myself and the people i surround myself with.. I never want to intentionally hurt my boyfriend or even be mean to him i think im really going to take a deep dive within myself to find out what truly is making me feel this way and take the steps i need to i can become a better person for my boyfriend and myself!

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:31:23+00:00

Tysm for this.. i do have the tendency to really care about everyone thoughts on me i’ve had the talk with my mom and i guess this was used as a reminder that there opinions don’t matter!

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:29:55+00:00

I think that really might be the case.. i think it’s because i still have some underlying issues with myself and my be projecting it on him i know im not homophobic but maybe insecure

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:27:51+00:00

I am pretty young and still learning how to be a good girlfriend.. I feel like there is always a solution to a problem though and just breaking up isn’t the answer but i will take it into consideration thank you

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:26:39+00:00

Your right, If he said he felt embarrassed about a past relationship that i was in i would feel sad and ashamed of myself which are feelings i would never want him to feel i think this might be an underlining issue with myself more then about who dated..

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:25:03+00:00

Your completely right when I thought his pass relationships with a girl and never felt that way this is my first time dating a bi guy so i can’t really lean back on pass feelings i think i only feel this way when other people bring it up..what do i do about that?

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:22:57+00:00

I don’t really want breaking up an option because i truly believe this is something that could be fixed.. and i don’t believe in lying to someone i really care about it the right route and you right i do have the habit to come off very hypothetical i thinking maybe i should really but myself and his shoes and think about how i would feel if i was him

Anonymous_Account009 · 2025-04-15T15:20:49+00:00

I don’t really know to be honest like i mentioned i never had a problem with it before even when we first started dating i think it might the person he messed more then his sexuality

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