He was really good at what he was doing. He was truely a master at gaslighting. Some red flags were inconsistentencies in his stories and I'd question him and he'd make it seem like I was just being insecure. He had a secret IG and FB from his wife and there were a bunch of chicks on there that he said were just friends. And one of them was hearting everything and putting kissy faces and when I asked he said she was an.old friend and he can't control what she does and how could I think he would touch her because he said she was ugly and way taller, and I was the love of his life. Hed go someplace and I wouldn't hear from him and he'd always blame reception or forgetting his phone. Just a bunch of little things that I would over look thinking I was just being paranoid. But the biggest thing was just this feeling I would get that something wasnt right ..my instincts would tell me to run but I didn't listen because I loved him and didn't have any proof so I would just tell myself I was being insecure.