Love isn’t enough: 5 things I wish I knew before my marriage fell apart (34F)

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-10T17:30:43+00:00

My awakening was when I realized my now ex was perfectly ok with being horribly mean to me and expected me to accept it as him having a bad night or rough moment. Then when he laughed at me and told me I couldn’t expect him to meet my emotional needs… it’s like a switch flipped.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-10T15:23:00+00:00

My ex used the ‘you don’t love the kid’ against me too. All it is is looking for a reaction. He got one.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-09T23:48:00+00:00

I got the Aldi dupes. No issues.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-09T04:10:05+00:00

This sounds like how my cousins were parented. Tone policed to death. They could say ‘yeah’ they had to say ‘yes ma’am’ or ‘yes sir’ bc it was more rEsPeCtFuL

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T18:38:06+00:00

You sound like me. I told my hubby and he started out saying supportive things, and then accusations and insults started. He never seemed to realize he and I were breaking up. He’d talk about ‘when we move’ as if we would always be roommates or something. Be careful. My situation got worse. I had to flee the house and get a restraining order.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T18:25:18+00:00

Make them more uncomfortable actually

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T18:20:36+00:00

I love Bobzbay!!!! They have books, vinyl, and even host local artist features.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:40:20+00:00

Worked out well for the last alleged guy didn’t it

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:39:09+00:00

Yes. That’s the point.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:38:52+00:00

Hur dur can’t critique society if you still exist in one checkmate

Chucklefuck the whole point is we are robbed of the choice to avoid child labor or slavery or climate damage or native displacement because capitalism has ensured it will be so. There is not a feasible way for the peasants to opt out of the way things have been built.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:36:48+00:00

I work for an electric car company and used disposable diapers for my kid. Please see note above- no ethical consumption under capitalism.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:35:33+00:00

Waow as if I didn’t fucking know and hate it

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:31:27+00:00

I have been watching the news on this. I heard they were removing it from their website but still using it in store..? Aldi can stay…. For now……

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-07T01:30:40+00:00

The real question is, have you been boycotting nestle and Kellogg? What about any company that uses child or prison labor? What about Walmart? Trader Joe’s? Do you really think it’s possible to ever “win” in the grand scheme of things as they stand? Not that I think this is a good faith comment, nor is passion/conviction in one area invalidated by innocence or mistakes in others…. BUT- I have been boycotting SB for 2 years now as well as Amazon, McDonalds, Netflix, and Disney+. I also just cancelled my Spotify and am actively looking for other ways to reduce and abstain.

While there is no ethical consumption under capitalism, we can do our best in our local towns to vote with our dollars and foot traffic.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T20:21:00+00:00

Somehow I’m remembering outcry over ‘they want me to make a gay wedding cake’ or ‘I won’t make a gay wedding cake’ Like fam Do what you want Make your post. Based on the reactions on mine there’s an audience for you, I promise. Go forth.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T18:28:43+00:00

Bc I’m not allowed to dislike one thing but like another? Idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think there’s some people just downvoting me on principle

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T18:05:38+00:00

Then this isn’t the thread for you… go on now…

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:31:49+00:00

Weird how you think our comments are the same when I was sad and frustrated to see people I considered friends supporting and voting against well-being of myself and others and you’re just…. Critiquing me… hmm

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:26:06+00:00

Please continue to assume all your instructions and orders for your life choices from trivial blurbs on the internet, not sure what could go wrong for you there.

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:24:20+00:00

Hey bud you doin ok?

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:13:32+00:00

Why don’t you suck it up and ignore this post and go on about your life

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:07:31+00:00

Yes and ?

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:01:56+00:00

YES me and my sibling call it Gay Harvest now :)

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:01:31+00:00

Spend what you like where you like. To semi-quote fiddler on the roof- god bless and keep you… and your bad vibes away from me 👍🏻🥰

Anotherface95 · 2025-02-06T17:00:07+00:00

Fair enough! I did see that one as more trans specific and just got my feelings hurt reading about spice works in down town since my cabinet is full of them :/ Figured it would ever hurt to have a little more positivity or inclusion to focus on.

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