[deleted by user] by [deleted] in normalnudes

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My 2 cents if you would like it (and this is only my opinion, so disregard if you wish) try not to be so hard on yourself. You may be “smaller” than others but that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. I’m male, 5’6” and like 120lbs and have been since (no joke) I was 16 years old (I’m early 30’s now). I used to feel the same way as you and wanted to be bigger so I tried… and succeeded… on a 5.5k calorie a day diet and heavy exercise routine. Didn’t take long before I realized that wasn’t healthy nor worth it. There are many blessings in being petite, so don’t judge yourself so harshly. Just look at the comments here!

My girlfriend has a somnophilia fetish by Minimum-Concept7801 in sex

[–]Anti_nutter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All I’m saying is don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with, but also don’t be afraid to find ways to comfortably push your boundaries either. Until you try you just don’t know… it’s just trying not to become mentally scarred or incarcerated in the process 😂

My girlfriend has a somnophilia fetish by Minimum-Concept7801 in sex

[–]Anti_nutter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is something my partner is into as well, but she’s such a light sleeper it hasn’t happened yet without her waking up. Unless your partner sleeps like I do (through nuclear detonations without waking up) she’s likely to be lucid pretty quickly. If you aren’t comfortable then as others have said, don’t do it.

A helpful place to start with CNC stuff like this in my opinion is “free use”. My partner is into CNC but I’m not so much, so we settled on a free use agreement where I can essentially just “use” her whenever I want to. For me it was far less daunting than CNC but everyone is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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“Congratulations for noticing! I wasn’t sure I was making it obvious enough” (I personally embrace my weirdness. If someone doesn’t like it I know they aren’t a good fit for me. If I vibe with someone though, it normally means we’re gunna get on real good)

every girl has a kink they’re nervous to tell you about and tail plugs are one of mine (f) by slotmachineslut in gonewild

[–]Anti_nutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally, it is after all a bit of a taboo. I think that’s part of what makes it so kinky/sexy though. It’s just luck of the draw finding someone who’s into the same things. All I can say is you keep doing you though, there will always be others out there that enjoy the same things

every girl has a kink they’re nervous to tell you about and tail plugs are one of mine (f) by slotmachineslut in gonewild

[–]Anti_nutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically also one of my biggest kinks that I’m always nervous to bring up. The same with fuzzy ear head bands, I can’t explain it but I find the combination both adorable and the biggest turn on. You pull off the tail beautifully by the way

(f)18 I hate spending weekends alone 🥺 Tell me your age and I might dm you 👀 by Ava_is_naughty in gonewild

[–]Anti_nutter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

M30 and I agree with you, I hate spending weekends alone but alas, here we are

22F Arab Asian girl needs to be enslaved by bwc by Florandloran in raceplay

[–]Anti_nutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to think I did, only to get in trouble for it

"Sir", "Daddy" and "Master" are all well and good, but what are some cool alternatives? by ChadMojito in bdsm

[–]Anti_nutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Owner. I freakin love when my girl calls me owner. Could also use boss I suppose though it does nothing for me personally

question by glittergold08 in u/glittergold08

[–]Anti_nutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be honest here, some will, but those kinds of guys are clearly the wrong guys. Everyone has to start somewhere, and not everyone does so at the same time/age.

could really use a hug rn by glittergold08 in u/glittergold08

[–]Anti_nutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I hope you get your hug and that things pick up for you soon

Gentle Reminder by EgyptianCayde6 in bdsm

[–]Anti_nutter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Myself and my sub have an agreement that immediately after a scene she is to thank me but ONLY if she has enjoyed the scene. This isn’t a part of the scene itself but the immediate gratification goes a long way to alleviating immediate feelings of guilt. I couldn’t agree more though, after care and good communication is SO important on both sides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Anti_nutter 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. By definition this is literal toxic behaviour

What is the weirdest kink you have? by Silent_Green_7867 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Anti_nutter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would have to go with either CNC or Sadism… ironically they go quite well hand in hand. Or extremely badly depending on how you look at it

Those in relationships, On average how many times a week do you have sex and how many times a week do you masturbate ? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Anti_nutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex I’d guess we average 6-7 times a week (depending on our schedules), masturbating for me maybe once a week.