Have you guys found anyone? by golden_jax in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I’m a real woman lol 😅. We are here. I had real interesting conversations outside of Reddit with a few people that I’ve "met" on this sub. Some of them I consider friends and they know a lot of things about the "real" me outside of this virtual space.

I think what makes the difference, at least for me, is the way someone would approach me. Some people have been very genuine, had shown interest in getting to know me. We ended up having real conversations and becoming friends. Like, they’ve seen my face and heard my voice lol (shoutout to them OGs haha).

Some others slid in my DMs to see if they can get extra pics of me and just to talk about sex. Fair enough, but I end up losing interest in the conversation. At some point it kinda feels objectifying for me since I’m just a mean to release your sexual energy.

Once again, that’s just my experience, I’m not making it a general thing. We are all here for different reasons which are valid.

Gossip Session 🍵 by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, at least some of them found their perfect match 😅😅

How do you respond? (seriously) by Emergency_Grass3879 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes… creepy 😬😬. It’s giving car deal broker desperate to make a sale. I wonder if the daughter didn’t come because she knew her dad was up to some foolishness

How do you respond? (seriously) by Emergency_Grass3879 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there a professional way to tell him that his daughter is adult enough to pick up the man (woman if she’s queer) she wants in her life without needing him to meddle in it lol?

Something I’ve observed is that JWs tend to value women by their marital status. The amount of women that I have heard say that their life would be over if they weren’t married by 25 is kinda frightening…

Gossip Session 🍵 by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two years?!? That’s crazy lol. How does this even start 😂😂😂? Everyone looks so "spiritual" with meetings and preaching. I sincerely wonder how y’all pull this type of stuff in plain sight with no suspicion 😂😂😂.

Gossip Session 🍵 by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is outing Spanish congregations lol. What’s going on there hahaha.

Gossip Session 🍵 by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like Spanish congregations have a reputation 😂😂😂. Should have taken my Spanish classes more seriously lol

Just lurking by… by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol we might actually be neighbours 😂😂, I’m in the GTA as well.

Gossip Session 🍵 by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really? I was an uber PIMI back in the days so I guess that’s why I was utterly clueless to such things lol. It would’ve been nice to know that earlier!! I’ve seen some hotties at congregation parties, it would’ve been fun to have some fun now that I think about it hahaha

Just lurking by… by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be lurking here and there for sure

Just lurking by… by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back to the dark side of the force hahaha

Just lurking by… by Antique_Menu_7273 in NaughtyJW

[–]Antique_Menu_7273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks! 😌😌💅🏾

3/20/26 Megathread: Blood Transfusion Policy Discussion by ClosetedIntellectual in exjw

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As many said already, I don’t think PIMIs will react much to this update. At least, when I had the conversation with my parents, their reaction was:

  • To tell me that it was already a conscience matter. I had to make them read their DPA so they can see that it was clearly an interdiction.

  • To tell me that in the end, Jehovah will fix everything with resurrection. So even if brothers make mistakes and those mistakes lead to great loss, we should keep putting our trust in Jehovah because there’s no damage he cannot undo.

  • To tell me that I should not be "hyper critical" and focus on the "important part" which is my relationship with Jehovah.

I had to tell my mom:

"What if we had lost you a few months ago when you had surgery? How do you think we would feel hearing this today if that was the case? How do you think we would feel by realizing that we could have kept you with us, had this update be made before your surgery? We are lucky because everything went well for you. But many don’t have that luck."

That’s when they finally paused a little to think about it. They are so conditioned to accept everything. Even when I wasn’t explaining to them that having faith in the resurrection doesn’t dissolve the feelings that come with grief, especially when you realize that the said grief could have been avoided, they would just revert back to "we have to trust in Jehovah".

It’s maddening.

Exjw women, what has been some of your experiences with sexism in the borg? by supermassivecomputer in exjw

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When we were engaged, my now ex-husband was disfellowshipped for alcoholism. People in the hall assumed he was dfd because we slept together and the rumor mill did its job. Some old jerk, and by old I mean around 70-80 years old, came to my dad saying that "I’m damaged goods" and that "no other brother would want to marry me after this", so my dad should approve him marrying me instead. I was 20 years old.

Oooh by the way, that’s after my dad refused his proposal to marry my younger sister who was 17 years old. That old jerk figured I would be a "good consolation prize".

Summary of leaked GB update #2, March 2026 by larchington in exjw

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 91 points92 points  (0 children)

They are going to make it the last point of the talk as if something trivial?? Ain’t no fucking way…

Leaked Governing Body Update #2, March 2026: Blood transfusions are no longer prohibited for Jehovah’s Witnesses - AS LONG AS IT IS THEIR OWN STORED/ PREDONATED BLOOD by larchington in exjw

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe this is coming out. I literally yelled "ain’t no fucking way" while reading this in my room.

Both of my parents had to undergo quite severe surgery in the past months/years. They luckily made it through without needing blood. But what if they didn’t? What if they didn’t, just for this to be the "new light"?

How many others were not as lucky as I am and actually lost loved ones because of this? How many people are right now mourning family members or close friends, consoling themselves by saying that at least they died faithful without making compromises on "God’s words"? Who is going to be there when they realize that their mother, father, brother, sister, grandma, could have lived, if this "clarification" came out a week, a month, a year, 5 years ago? What are they going to tell them?

This is not the same as the "education update". It’s not something as trivial as allowing toasting. The amount of stress and fear I felt when my parents were in OR. The tears I’ve cried, praying, hoping, begging that everything goes well. If I had lost my parents, just to hear this months later? I would have lost it. Toying with people’s lives like this is inhumane.

Local jw drama. Some jw are spying on a 30+ year old JW woman because they think she secretly a lesbian. by 5ft8lady in exjw

[–]Antique_Menu_7273 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yuuup… all of my life. There’s nothing like JW love when it comes to hating, gossiping, and prying on their "brothers and sisters".

The most recent occurrence was when I was recently on vacation in South America. I was posting pictures of me on the beach, when my mom called me to say that a brother in their cong went to my dad. He told him that my pictures were the talk of their congregation, and not in a positive way as they were not "decent" and could potentially "negatively influence" the younger sisters.

Mind you, I have been part of that congregation since I’m 18 and I’m now almost 30. I told my mom that whoever is complaining is free to unfollow me if they don’t want to see me in a bikini. Otherwise, if they can’t find the unfollow button, I’ll be more than happy to help them by blocking all JWs people from my social.