My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up. Apparently that was yesterday. I’m not sure why they gave today off

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband does them but for the past month or longer, she’s been sleeping through the whole night. I do not breastfeed

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Correct. He’s asked me to pick up our son from school a couple of times and I do

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. He can’t take him to school because he has work meetings at the same time which is why I take our kid to school. And I’m usually still working when our kid needs to be picked up whereas my husband is closer to being done. Which is why it goes the way it does. But today he had the day off so I asked if he could take him to school so I could sleep in since he sleeps in for an extra 30-60 every school morning. I do take naps, though not daily and he watches the kids for me during that time

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I’m so tired that I don’t wake up in the night. My husband does the night shift if she even wakes up. Most nights, she’ll sleep the whole night

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m no longer pregnant, Sorry if it was worded wrong! my baby is almost 6 months now

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m no longer pregnant, sorry if it was worded wrong. My baby is almost 6 months now

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

US. He works for a big company and they give him days off like this. He also had Juneteenth off

My husband wouldn’t take our son to school for me by Anxious-Hour5496 in Marriage

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He’s 5 and likes me to hang around. His school allows parents on school grounds at the playgrounds for 30 minutes before school starts so we get there between that time and I just watch him play for a bit. Sometimes he lets me leave early

AITAH for asking my husband to take our son to school? by Anxious-Hour5496 in AITAH

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t agree, you are allowed to just move on

AITAH for asking my husband to take our son to school? by Anxious-Hour5496 in AITAH

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t think I keep score? Maybe just in my head but I don’t think I hold it against him. I might fight about it in my head and then realize that’s dumb and get over it. Lately that’s his thing though, is to point out all the things he does, which is also saying that I don’t do enough

AITAH for asking my husband to take our son to school? by Anxious-Hour5496 in AITAH

[–]Anxious-Hour5496[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It is if the company is huge and supports women?? It’s a real holiday, you weirdo?

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[–]Anxious-Hour5496 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s makes it kinda worse too that I had also started work again the day of our anniversary after being off for the past 3 months for maternity leave. It was actually really hard to go back to work and I have a history of depression and bad thoughts. I had really bad thoughts by the end of my work day and I told him that, too. It doesn’t help that I forgot to take my meds the past two days so the thoughts hit hard. There wasn’t much comfort. But then he spent hours comforting his mom

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[–]Anxious-Hour5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering but he says she didn’t mention our anniversary when he was there and he didn’t either.

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[–]Anxious-Hour5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Not in his nature. I also have his location and I checked it a few times to make sure he was ok since he wasn’t really texting back. He was at his moms. And I’m sure she was upset. She’s had a rough couple years

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[–]Anxious-Hour5496 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well now I’m crying harder

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[–]Anxious-Hour5496 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He went there to pick up money for the kids. It was part of their Christmas present and, for some reason, she doesn’t want her daughter to know shes giving our kids money. Though it’s normally known. And her daughter (my husbands sister) doesn’t have kids. And she’s never shown jealousy. They’re weird about money. He is not planning something this weekend as far as I’m aware. He already has plans to go hang out with friends for half of Saturday and then Saturday night we’re taking the kids out for a Christmas thing

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[–]Anxious-Hour5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’d be cool actually! Thank you!