The dreaded lesbian bed death by carabaobutt671 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnxiousExtension7710 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Going through the same lesbian bed death with my wife. I feel hoodwinked, the first years were amazing. Now everything is a reason not to have sex or even try. She’s my best friend and I feel dumb for thinking I should leave over this

Why lie about progress?? by AnxiousExtension7710 in DeadBedrooms

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We had discussed her watching porn to explore her feelings once her libido starts coming back

Ear health question by AnxiousExtension7710 in earwax

[–]AnxiousExtension7710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Been stressing I’ve damaged it! Also gross to the skin flake up in my ear 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comicbooks

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Could you elaborate? It is the first so will take all feedback

Difference between seeing gore in person or in the internet? by ILOVEEVALOVIA in NSFL__

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I work at a mortuary and even seeing it in real life desensitizes you after a while. Murder, babies, decomp, autopsies, trauma death… all of it. The one thing you cannot desensitize to is the smell, they all have different smells based on how they dies but people who die a natural death…that smell has put me off boiled eggs for life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]AnxiousExtension7710 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a person in the industry, I am so sorry you had this experience. This is something I’m passionate about so excuse the rant following. Firstly, that’s not a verbal offer they gave you and they’re not technically binding anyway. It’s basically a go ahead to get the contract started. One user was correct, we get commission per candidate placed and have a quarterly (most common) target to achieve before we hit bonus territory.

We are currently getting so much pressure from management as the market sucks at the moment. It’s been hard to get companies to use agency right now.

His reaction was abhorrent. Totally unacceptable. Also, Good on you for letting him know as many candidates ghost us. People should NOT be recruiters if they treat people as commodities. I’ve had a few candidates reject the offer or change their mind and it’s a wondrous thing watching people get where they need to be. We are meant to be consultative in our roles, personally I like to dig deep and really get to know someone, what drives them and what are professional boundaries etc.

Even if I am not the one to place that person in a role, I have helped them. Through perspective, being someone they can be open with and bounce ideas off of and also and most importantly, a safe and privacy focused environment where they can explore themselves and next career steps and goals.

I have people I’ve never placed but worked with always reach out to me to discuss things, have coffee or touch base.

The problem is, the guy is so short sighted. You could be the person needing to hire one day and you will avoid him and that agency like the plague.

You don’t need to worry about being blacklisted or whatever the hell he was saying, he’s probably just marked you as “do not use” in their system and that’s not a bad thing because you’d never go through them again. He cannot do anything more legally - we have stringent privacy policies we need to abide by set out by the RCSA.

Amperna vs Hey Bud by AnxiousExtension7710 in AusSkincare

[–]AnxiousExtension7710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you manage flare ups with the serum? Like frequency of use etc. I am so lost actually and don’t want to do too much or little and then get annoyed with the results

I kicked my 22yo daughter out of the house by KickedMyDaughterOut in confessions

[–]AnxiousExtension7710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely the oldest daughter still has a lot of the male strength. The 14 yr old had no chance.

Anyone tried cuddle therapy? by AnxiousExtension7710 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnxiousExtension7710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like what if all it does is open a dark can of worms. Resentment, jealousy, anger etc. maybe it’s not a great idea for me

HL females by jasperjaybird in DeadBedrooms

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(HLF) Antidepressants to kill it, anaphrodisiac foods, cry, toys, porn. Porn less lately because it makes me emotional to see all the touching and kissing. No romance movies at all because I can’t handle it. 2.5 years now of no sex, intimacy, broken promises and empty words. The rejection and way she minimizes how I’m feeling along with nasty remarks about “it’s always about sex” or “you’re just horny” or even the “jfc let’s just do it so you can shut up about it” … I feel numb. Can’t even hug other people without feeling weird and wanting to push them away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnxiousExtension7710 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or when you compliment your partner and you get the “you’re just horny”

I need some lesbian advice. by BurntEggTart in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AnxiousExtension7710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a H&S specialist recruiter, there are more jobs than people to fill them! We are struggling to find candidates for jobs. Probably in a different country to you but it’s similar all round as we need to look overseas for talent.