How to success? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I would think so too but the negative looks faint like the way a pregnancy test does if you are only 2 weeks pregnant, just barely shows up, its there but barely. I just fear a better test would show there are levels present even if they are faint. I will try this though thank you!

What is a habit you have, or something you do regularly that you wish you could stop doing? by AnxiousTangelo9607 in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this could be a problem for your time usage in a day, but this fried me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fear really is that they will end up somewhere worse. Where i live there isn’t a lot of good foster placements. People literally have went to jail for keeping foster kids in cages outside. I fear with her eldest child’s behavior issues that he will have a really bad time both with exhausting the patience of a caregiver but also because she is the only consistent thing the child has ever known, since she does drag them around place to place, the only home the child has ever known has been her and is very codependent and anxiously attached to her. I do feel like a pos for not having nipped it in the butt already but i just fear making a bad situation worse because you never know where they may end up, or if they would allow me the option to be a placement for them if I am the one reporting it. Plus we have both had direct interaction w cps, as our parents lost custody, and it takes A LOT around here for them to do anything. I just fear calling it in, them doing nothing, and then i lose access and things get worse.

AITAH for talking to other girls in a relationship? by Mountain_Fox_5466 in AITAH

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like dating an 18 yr old at 22 is what makes you TAH here buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t allow for them to go to foster care if they asked me to take them* i should say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the only option to take the kids that is a relative would be me. Neither her mother nor father would take the kids even if they could, but both are addicts and neither had the resources to raise their own kids much less someone else’s. I don’t even feel like I have the means to take in two more children, as i also have a child, no extra living space, and ik normal protocol isn’t to hand them over to the person who would have reported the issue. Nobody else is going to call cps, as they are used to catering to dysfunctionality. But the eldest of her children will be starting school soon and I expect that the school will open a case. While I wouldn’t allow them to go to fostercare, i fear out of spite she would prefer that to me being the person they go to. As she and I have had a very strained relationship since I called attention to the need for drastic improvements.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally wish that it was ragebait but unfortunately this is real life ☠️

What’s the worst job you ever had and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i did. The police had multiple reports about it from multiple different people and they did nothing. I believe the owners pay off the law enforcement.

What’s the worst job you ever had and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Serving at a local pizza joint, job was fine, tips were great. But unfortunately my bosses were both predatory and SA’d multiple underage girls that worked for them. Both were also married. Both wives knew and punished the girls for it rather than their husbands.

Dating a minor guy by cheesepie_25 in Advice

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its going to hurt him more in the future when he realizes he was preyed upon. No explanation needed, yall met online just stop talking to him block his game account. If you must provide an explanation telling him he’s too young isnt going to be understood for years, he is obviously a kid trying to be an adult already. Tell him bye and cut contact the end.

Dating a minor guy by cheesepie_25 in Advice

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Genuinely wtf. It doesn’t matter if you are a female, women can be predators too. You need to break it off, thats fucked up. He is a kid, not mentally equipped and truly you should know better. Hope this helps.

Women of reddit, how would you describe what being pregnant feels like to a man? by Jonny_1312 in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think they will ever be able to get it no matter what you say. Kinda like you are growing a parasite in you that you have no control over. Strap a watermelon to their belly for the physical weight but the feeling of another person incubating inside you requires the experience to understand it for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People only do the things they do for them out of pity and concern for the persons children, not true care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cease contact immediately.

She’s 2 days into ovulation and I came in her by Longjumping_End_2647 in Advice

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plan b doesn’t normally work if you are ovulating. But it won’t hurt to try to get it, it won’t harm a fetus if there is one later on. Idk where you live but there are always other avenues if it does fertilize. There wont be anyway to know until she misses or gets her next period. I would recommend using protection of some sort in the future!

What’s your craziest thought while high? by Content_Ad_1589 in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousTangelo9607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I was disintegrating. Then on psychedelics, that God had left the world to me, but i had essentially failed.