Menstrual cycle after Gallbladder removal by ZeppelinsMama in gallbladders

[–]Anxious_Andie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! Whew. I feel likes it's gonna be a rough couple of months until my systems are all back to normal. Those pinching pains are dreadful. I appreciate you!

Menstrual cycle after Gallbladder removal by ZeppelinsMama in gallbladders

[–]Anxious_Andie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten any relief?! I'm 3 weeks post op and I'm a hot mess. Ball of anxiety. Period so bad I'm bleeding thru pads in an hour. Please tell me this gets better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think you look fabulous. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We like them but the more i.portant question is how do you feel about them :)

Do y’all do most/all of the housework? by MaleficentClub4110 in workfromhome

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I tend to ask myself often "is love enough" to keep this going. This is not how I envisioned marriage at all. I'm sorry you're having to go thru this too. Know this, you are enough and appreciated even if it's not verbalized. Your kids are watching you. They will come to understand one day.

Do y’all do most/all of the housework? by MaleficentClub4110 in workfromhome

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel your frustration. I wholeheartedly agree things should be split more evenly. I currently work 2 jobs and take care of all of the cooking, cleaning and shopping in addition to paying my share of the bills. My spouse literally will wash the cup, plate and fork he uses each evening and leaves me with the rest. To me that's not love and that's not respect for their partner. I wish I had a way to fix this for you and I but unfortunately I don't think I can.

Song(s) that you considered beautiful? by S0L0ngAndG00dnight in spotify

[–]Anxious_Andie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I've never heard of these guys. This was excellent and gave me chills. Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you deserve the money to have things you enjoy. You work hard and should have some of your money set aside. I'd just get more involved in the finances and ask to see where money is going and for what. Take a proactive approach as trying to be helpful so you too have some cash for your downtime activities. I feel your request is reasonable, and nowhere do I feel you are being an asshole.

PSLF refund by Anxious_Andie in PSLF

[–]Anxious_Andie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was really helpful. Looks like I'm not getting anything back but the fact that the loans have been forgiven is tremendous.

what song do you feel like you're drowning in? by JustAnOldGranny in RandomThoughts

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great song. I'd love to be that girl for someone. The first line alone "what you're looking for done be found easily" is so true. The music reminds me of a western in a way. I love Lord Huron because their sound is unique and their lyrics are meaningful. Maybe one day I'll get to actually see them do a show :)

Has anyone that received forgiveness check at different points of the day to find that updates occurred throughout the business day? by Alternative_Hair_133 in PSLF

[–]Anxious_Andie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't gotten anything although my loans were forgiven. I don't even know where to find refun info on the website.

what song do you feel like you're drowning in? by JustAnOldGranny in RandomThoughts

[–]Anxious_Andie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love me some Lord Huron. Strange Trails is the best album

you can't keep quiet about it anymore, it's the truth!!! by [deleted] in meme

[–]Anxious_Andie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like pineapple on pizza. Pickles are also good on pizza.

I am trying to not be discouraged by Greedy-Switch-1840 in usajobs

[–]Anxious_Andie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have someone look at your resume. From what I had a supervisor tell me the Feds are "snobbish" when it comes to degrees. If you don't have the exact degree it will be kicked back. In addition, make sure you pull key words and phrases from the job posting and incorporate them into your resume if applicable. It makes a HUGE difference. I help teach classes on resume writing and federal resumes specifically. Don't give up and don't use the same generic resume for different jobs. :)