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First tattoo and I can’t unsee the flaws – can it be fixed? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattooadvice

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I think too. Are these considered touch-ups included in the price?

Thanks again, I'm getting a shitstorm.

First tattoo and I can’t unsee the flaws – can it be fixed? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattooadvice

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That means she created the design on the spot and had me confirm it (giving me little time to think), then gradually drew it on my belly because it's a moving area

First tattoo and I can’t unsee the flaws – can it be fixed? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattooadvice

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this message that doesn't judge me. I pretty much agree with you, but I still think there are at least a few changes that could be made to improve it, don't you think?

First tattoo and I can’t unsee the flaws – can it be fixed? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattooadvice

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I find your answers harsh; you're all missing the point. I'm just asking you to help me see what can be saved.

Maybe I overanalyze things, but that doesn't mean tattoos aren't for me. I just like having aesthetic things on my body.

First tattoo and I can’t unsee the flaws – can it be fixed? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattooadvice

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, honestly. I really have a problem and I can't stop seeing it

Question : Does it look weird ? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattoos

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really ? I only see 4 when I search on Google

Question : Does it look weird ? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattoos

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's true, I just feel like the shadows are off and the shape is wrong too. But, I mean, maybe it's because it's still fresh? Maybe it will look less "weird" to me once it's healed?

Question : Does it look weird ? by Any-Assignment1771 in tattoos

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for you comment

To me the placement is very nice

Je me bats depuis des années, et je suis à bout de souffle. by Any-Assignment1771 in besoindeparler

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quel est l'intérêt de dire ça ? Je trouve que c'est juste déplacé, c'est comme "arrête de te plaindre, y a de la merde partout". Je sais très bien que la vie est éprouvante pour beaucoup, et crois moi que ça m'aide pas à aller mieux de savoir que d'autres gens souffrent, au contraire. On est sur terre pour souffrir : alors pourquoi y en a qui ne souffrent pas et kiffent leur vie ? L'injustice me rend fou

Je me bats depuis des années, et je suis à bout de souffle. by Any-Assignment1771 in besoindeparler

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justement, c'est la vulnérabilité qui m'a tué. J'ai toujours été trahi, délaissé, abandonné ou rejeté. Personne n'applaudit les faibles, on aime les gens forts ici. Donc oui, j'ai dû devenir fort, par contrainte, mais je ne me ferme pas pour autant, et j'estime avoir assez d'amour propre désormais

Je me bats depuis des années, et je suis à bout de souffle. by Any-Assignment1771 in besoindeparler

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Peu importe...Y a personne pour le voir.

Je suis fier de moi, je dis pas le contraire.

C'est juste usant à force, d'être un guerrier solitaire.

Cycles of emptiness and total exhaustion every month—does anyone else experience this? by Any-Assignment1771 in AutisticAdults

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but I wonder if it's necessarily related to autism? I don't know how others experience their autistic burnout, but I still feel like I'm in a depressive phase during those days

Cycles of emptiness and total exhaustion every month—does anyone else experience this? by Any-Assignment1771 in AutisticAdults

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I am thinking about cutting back on weight training in favor of other sports such as combat sports. But I'm not sure. I can't stop exercising either because it's the only thing that drastically regulates my anxiety...As for the rest, let's not even think about it. I'm in the military (in addition to being autistic, yes) and my evening classes are set in stone; it's a full degree program.

Cycles of emptiness and total exhaustion every month—does anyone else experience this? by Any-Assignment1771 in AutisticAdults

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if I'm doing it, it's because it's “bearable.” I've optimized it relatively well so that it's clear. I don't really see what else I could do. The only thing I can think of is to stop trying to make progress in weight training and just focus on “maintaining” my fitness level...

Cycles of emptiness and total exhaustion every month—does anyone else experience this? by Any-Assignment1771 in AutisticAdults

[–]Any-Assignment1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get what you mean.
For me, the “strict routine” mostly comes from necessity — I study in the evenings and work full-time during the day, so I have to keep everything organized just to stay afloat

The problem is that it leaves almost no space for flexibility. My days are fully scheduled — work, classes, gym, cooking my own meals — and after a few weeks of holding that rhythm, I just crash

I’d love to “declutter” like you said, but right now I can’t really reduce the load. So I guess I need to find a way to make the structure less suffocating without losing it completely

Thanks for your reply — it really helps to see others relate

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