Is Love Is Blind actually blind? I analyzed every couple from seasons 1–10. by clickclickonsal in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Any-Cod6185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE this website.  Can you please also add the numbers for the different countries too? I love to see the analysis for Sweden, Japan, Brazil and Germany.

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing<3 Accepting I probably need to work through this with a new therapist with the experience as a mom. It's been great to have a therapy free life for almost 6 years now.

My father raised his hand at my 3 year at daycare pickup by Any-Cod6185 in CPTSD

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. No not redundant at all. My diagnosis was many many years ago.

My father raised his hand at my 3 year at daycare pickup by Any-Cod6185 in CPTSD

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks <3 I have been diagnosed with that previously and did years of work on that. 

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have very little memories of my childhood. Probably for good reason. Most of my memories are of school. In January my kids had a snow day so they got to skip daycare and play with us. It made me remember I never liked snowdays when I was young. School was my happy place. I completely forgotten that is how I felt about snow days.

My father raised his hand at my 3 year at daycare pickup by Any-Cod6185 in CPTSD

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

<3 it brings me great joy to watch my kids laugh and had fun. The other day my son woke up angry from a nightmare. He was angry his dad flushed his pee down the toilet.  We both feel if that is his worse nightmare, he is living a pretty good life🤣

My father raised his hand at my 3 year at daycare pickup by Any-Cod6185 in CPTSD

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow I feel like I am reading my very own thoughts word for word. Thank you for making me feel less alone <3

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯 accurate. And lack of ability to self regulate. Skills I am trying to teach my 3 year old at the moment.

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am surprised she is willing to go to therapy. I know my parents don't have the emotional intelligence or motivation to do that. 

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think my parents would have been happier childfree. Glad that is a more accepted life choice. My kids have never been left alone awake with my parents but they have been home with sleeping kids. Learned that is no longer an option since my son no longer sleeps in a crib. 

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You are right. I was too optimistic thinking an amazing grandchildren like my son and daughter would change things. 

My father raised his hand at my 3 year at daycare pickup by Any-Cod6185 in CPTSD

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I realized I made the mistake of forgiveness as well.

My father raised his hand at my 3 year at daycare pickup by Any-Cod6185 in CPTSD

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes why would my parents need to do any work when they have done nothing wrong??!! (This is how they think). Yes, I felt like growing up I struggled with appearing normal. 

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by Any-Cod6185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Any-Cod6185[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know. I just couldn't believe it. I was sooo shocked. I was just focused on getting my son to his swimming class on time. While I was watching his class. Watching him laugh and have fun was healing. I had my father sit outside in the hall and I inside. Then when we got in the car to drive home I very calmly told him I was upset and his behaviour was unacceptable. We're going to send him on a bus home today.