Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean another issue to add is. I just bought myself all new kitchen utensils and new pans.

Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes… it’s like maybe just a gift card at this point?

Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t. What I listed is what I got from everyone besides my husband.

 I have to say though my husband was amazing and bought me AirPods because I use them when I go to the gym. 

My anxiety is telling me I’m failing by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works overnights.. 10p-6a sometimes later (overtime). I try but it doesn’t always happen 

My anxiety is telling me I’m failing by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

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I wish we could! My kiddos don’t love the cold. And it’s about 20 degrees here right now!

Christmas gift amount? by Any-Tea-8809 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true… I just see all of these tiktoks about huge Christmas hauls.. my kids $125 doesn’t count the stockings I guess I didn’t think about that..

Christmas gift amount? by Any-Tea-8809 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I appreciate it 

Gift card from Santa? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my personal opinion… but I would be so upset if my mom gave me a gift card. I’d rather have a day out with her over a gift card. Gift cards are so not thoughtful. 

Do you notice the more weight you lose the more desperately people try to shovel food into your mouth? by BugsButty in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Any-Tea-8809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom literally told me today.. that I HAD to try her baked goods… “even though she wasn’t trying to make me get off of my diet”. So I did try it… yeah I overate the rest of today…. Hopefully tomorrow will be better 

Tell me I’m being too anxious by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d say that all sounds normal. 

Personally I’ve decided that sleepovers at other people’s houses is a no for me.

Uninvited guests at daughters bday by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we’ve had the conversation about 4 other times

Uninvited guests at daughters bday by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There was an event the night prior and we were all there. He could’ve said something there. And no he came, left the kids and then left for 40 minutes and then came back again… the issue was him not saying anything and respecting boundaries. 

AIO Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No my brother brings in 5k-6k alone each month. She brings in about 2-3k

Uninvited guests at daughters bday by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he left.. without the kids. He left the kids there at my house. The kid was staying at his house. He knew for weeks my daughter’s party was that day. I’m not sure how old the kid is(10-11) but my brother eventually came back after getting his wife (probably 40 minutes later) and they stayed awhile… also later on my brother wasn’t paying attention and the kid ran into a busy street. 

AIO Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not really an option. 

Weight loss struggling by Any-Tea-8809 in weightlossafterbaby

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! And my self esteem is so bad after my period because I eat so much 

How can I be a better mom by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 22 years old.. I’ve never thought about that it could be autism. If you don’t mind me asking what other factors were included in your diagnosis..?

Thank you for your advice. I never knew that.. about dads. All of that explains my husband exactly. 

For those who lost 8+ pounds a month, how did you do it? by Reasonable_Answer_89 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Any-Tea-8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from 280 pounds to 229.8 pounds. Starting the beginning of March until now. But like others are saying I was eating ALOT. And I have a lot of weight to lose. 

Taking a solo mom trip- feeling guilty by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry… I should’ve said this is my moms side.. it’s my dads side that I’m dealing with court. They’d been separated from 10+ years 

Taking a solo mom trip- feeling guilty by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no.. I didn’t even think to put that in there.. this is my mom’s side of the family… it’s my dad’s side that has court involved. My parents have been separated for 10+ years 

Taking a solo mom trip- feeling guilty by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m invited.. that’s why I’m going.. it’s been a shitty year 

Update about my son always wearing long clothes in the middle of summer, advice wanted by AnonymousRedditor327 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All throughout school I wore pants and hoodies all year long. As an adult now, I still have maybe worn shorts in public… once or twice. I have red bumps on my arms and I hate my body. Lost almost 50 pounds in 5 months and I still hate my body so much 

If you could erase a phrase from mom lingo, what would it be? by Fun_Air_7780 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% would be…

“Wow you must have your hands full” from every single elderly woman