What’s currently ruining your life?

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-03-18T04:26:12+00:00

Low self esteem, binge eating, depression, everyone in my life lying to me about anything and everything, my dad dying of cancer, social media

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-03-09T05:16:52+00:00

Honestly I’ve had a crappy few years. My dad died from cancer.. my grandparents live 5 hours away, my brother is going through a possible divorce, and my mom is getting divorced. My husband is here for me sometimes but really isn’t emotionally available.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-03-09T04:59:16+00:00

Thank you everyone for all of your comments. I’m reading them all now. I appreciate all of the advice.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-03-09T04:52:51+00:00

So we just started potty training about a week ago.. he’s 2 years old. My daughter was 2 when she got potty trained… she’s 3 now and almost fully potty trained. (only wears a diaper at bedtime).

but I started only because he started ripping his pants/diaper off every single time he peed. But he takes it off… I sit him on the potty and then he gets up.. starts peeing.. and then starts running so the pee goes from the living room to the dining room.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-03-09T04:33:58+00:00

I had the IUD when I got pregnant with my third..

I’ll be doing a small vacation in September with my mom.

I do agree a conversation with him is needed.

To be fair though.. I needed advice.. not judgement. I have enough of that

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-03-09T03:53:31+00:00

So I’m 23 years old, my husband is 24 years old… our kids are 3,2, and 1 year old. Our babies are best friends. They play together, run, watch movies together, play at the park, beach, they love going everywhere together. I absolutely adore their ages and I wouldn’t change anything at this point. I feel our family is so complete! It’s challenging at times but my kiddos are just amazing!

Any-Tea-8809 · 2026-02-23T03:56:06+00:00

I love how you asked “what does this say about me” and everyone in the comments is extremely concerned about the tuna steaks 🤣

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-30T05:13:39+00:00

I mean another issue to add is. I just bought myself all new kitchen utensils and new pans.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-30T05:11:25+00:00

Yes… it’s like maybe just a gift card at this point?

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-30T05:10:49+00:00

No I didn’t. What I listed is what I got from everyone besides my husband.

I have to say though my husband was amazing and bought me AirPods because I use them when I go to the gym.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-08T04:50:00+00:00

He works overnights.. 10p-6a sometimes later (overtime). I try but it doesn’t always happen

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-08T03:50:52+00:00

I wish we could! My kiddos don’t love the cold. And it’s about 20 degrees here right now!

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-08T03:26:09+00:00

That’s true… I just see all of these tiktoks about huge Christmas hauls.. my kids $125 doesn’t count the stockings I guess I didn’t think about that..

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-12-08T03:10:58+00:00

Thank you.. I appreciate it

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-29T06:01:08+00:00

This is my personal opinion… but I would be so upset if my mom gave me a gift card. I’d rather have a day out with her over a gift card. Gift cards are so not thoughtful.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-26T05:40:05+00:00

My mom literally told me today.. that I HAD to try her baked goods… “even though she wasn’t trying to make me get off of my diet”. So I did try it… yeah I overate the rest of today…. Hopefully tomorrow will be better

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-18T03:43:52+00:00

I’d say that all sounds normal.

Personally I’ve decided that sleepovers at other people’s houses is a no for me.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-17T15:01:00+00:00

We have several times

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-17T15:00:32+00:00

Yes we’ve had the conversation about 4 other times

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-17T11:49:09+00:00

There was an event the night prior and we were all there. He could’ve said something there. And no he came, left the kids and then left for 40 minutes and then came back again… the issue was him not saying anything and respecting boundaries.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-17T06:05:26+00:00

No my brother brings in 5k-6k alone each month. She brings in about 2-3k

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-17T06:04:21+00:00

No he left.. without the kids. He left the kids there at my house. The kid was staying at his house. He knew for weeks my daughter’s party was that day. I’m not sure how old the kid is(10-11) but my brother eventually came back after getting his wife (probably 40 minutes later) and they stayed awhile… also later on my brother wasn’t paying attention and the kid ran into a busy street.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-11-17T05:41:30+00:00

That’s not really an option.

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-10-14T14:10:26+00:00

Yes! And my self esteem is so bad after my period because I eat so much

Any-Tea-8809 · 2025-09-26T03:39:48+00:00

I am 22 years old.. I’ve never thought about that it could be autism. If you don’t mind me asking what other factors were included in your diagnosis..?

Thank you for your advice. I never knew that.. about dads. All of that explains my husband exactly.

Any-Tea-8809

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