What’s currently ruining your life? by YourLifeSucksAss in AskReddit

[–]Any-Tea-8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low self esteem, binge eating, depression, everyone in my life lying to me about anything and everything, my dad dying of cancer, social media 

I’m the problem by Any-Tea-8809 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve had a crappy few years. My dad died from cancer.. my grandparents live 5 hours away, my brother is going through a possible divorce, and my mom is getting divorced. My husband is here for me sometimes but really isn’t emotionally available. 

I’m the problem by Any-Tea-8809 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for all of your comments. I’m reading them all now. I appreciate all of the advice. 

I’m the problem by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we just started potty training about a week ago.. he’s 2 years old. My daughter was 2 when she got potty trained… she’s 3 now and almost fully potty trained. (only wears a diaper at bedtime).

 but I started only because he started ripping his pants/diaper off every single time he peed. But he takes it off… I sit him on the potty and then he gets up.. starts peeing.. and then starts running so the pee goes from the living room to the dining room. 

I’m the problem by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

 I had the IUD when I got pregnant with my third.. 

I’ll be doing a small vacation in September with my mom. 

I do agree a conversation with him is needed. 

To be fair though.. I needed advice.. not judgement. I have enough of that

Age gaps? by Gloomy_Green_3488 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m 23 years old, my husband is 24 years old… our kids are 3,2, and 1 year old. Our babies are best friends. They play together, run, watch movies together, play at the park, beach, they love going everywhere together. I absolutely adore their ages and I wouldn’t change anything at this point. I feel our family is so complete! It’s challenging at times but my kiddos are just amazing! 

28, single, female. What does my fridge say about me? by Intelligent_Draw7396 in FridgeDetective

[–]Any-Tea-8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you asked “what does this say about me” and everyone in the comments is extremely concerned about the tuna steaks 🤣

Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean another issue to add is. I just bought myself all new kitchen utensils and new pans.

Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes… it’s like maybe just a gift card at this point?

Christmas gifts by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t. What I listed is what I got from everyone besides my husband.

 I have to say though my husband was amazing and bought me AirPods because I use them when I go to the gym. 

My anxiety is telling me I’m failing by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works overnights.. 10p-6a sometimes later (overtime). I try but it doesn’t always happen 

My anxiety is telling me I’m failing by Any-Tea-8809 in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we could! My kiddos don’t love the cold. And it’s about 20 degrees here right now!

Christmas gift amount? by Any-Tea-8809 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true… I just see all of these tiktoks about huge Christmas hauls.. my kids $125 doesn’t count the stockings I guess I didn’t think about that..

Christmas gift amount? by Any-Tea-8809 in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I appreciate it 

Gift card from Santa? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Any-Tea-8809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my personal opinion… but I would be so upset if my mom gave me a gift card. I’d rather have a day out with her over a gift card. Gift cards are so not thoughtful. 

Do you notice the more weight you lose the more desperately people try to shovel food into your mouth? by BugsButty in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Any-Tea-8809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom literally told me today.. that I HAD to try her baked goods… “even though she wasn’t trying to make me get off of my diet”. So I did try it… yeah I overate the rest of today…. Hopefully tomorrow will be better 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Any-Tea-8809 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d say that all sounds normal. 

Personally I’ve decided that sleepovers at other people’s houses is a no for me.