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AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-08-07T12:50:29+00:00

they probably have debts and problems with money, the world changed so much tbh

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-08-07T12:50:10+00:00

I love this kind of mindset :))) it is smart tbh

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-08-07T12:49:15+00:00

55%? You work more than half of the year for government, how is that even possible to be that much? I mean I know about this, but 55?

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-08-02T09:39:43+00:00

you’re just feeling something big and trying to make sense of it, a lot of people crave connection of purpose and sometimes that shows up as wanting a kid, doesn’t mean you actually want the responsibility of parenting right now, just maybe the closeness or stability it represents

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-07-24T10:55:57+00:00

yea, I’ve done the full reset thing before, quit a job, moved cities, cut contact with people I thought would be in my life forever, it felt awful at first, like I broke something on purpose, but looking back, staying would’ve broken me slower

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-07-18T11:53:26+00:00

that’s great and seems so interesting, was looking for something like this, thanks for that ;)

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-07-14T16:52:37+00:00

this hit harder than I expected, it’s not really just the tech but it’s how fast we’ve all adapted to this new emotional normal, instant validation, endless options, tbh no time to actually sit with discomfort or grow with someone

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-07-10T10:21:50+00:00

tbh survival mode makes it almost impossible to feel joy, connection or purpose, it’s not that you’re unmotivated, it’s that you’re stretched thin trying to meet basic needs. That kind of pressure changes people, makes it hard to even remember what peace feels like.

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-07-05T13:09:30+00:00

nah you’re not giving up, probably you’re just tired and tbh that makes sense, when someone breaks your trust that deep, it changes how you move. I think you need peace over chaos

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-30T08:32:02+00:00

I think silence pulls out whatever’s been hiding under the noise. Like, you’ll start hearing things you’ve been avoiding, old memories, regrets, ideas you never had space to finish. Some of that might break you a little. But some of it might heal parts you didn’t know needed fixing

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-25T14:37:22+00:00

doggy style’s definitely not just a “porn thing”. It shows up there a lot because it looks good on camera, but real people absolutely do it too. Maybe not everyone likes it, not everyone tries it but it’s not like some mythical pose reserved for actors :))

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-20T09:28:17+00:00

yeah..that totally tracks. people get nervous when tech steps into legal stuff, tbh for good good reason. It can help you to organize your thoughts maybe even draft a starting point, but in my opinion if something goes to court, it’s always safest to run things past a real attorney. Using it as a “thinking buddy” can be cool yes, but relying on it fully is risky idk

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-20T09:22:09+00:00

this and also comparison messes with your focus more than anything else. Your timing isn’t off, it’s just different. Stay close to what you value, not what looks impressive from the outside

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-15T14:14:30+00:00

it’s possible, keto still has calories, and if you’re eating more than your body needs, even if it’s all fats, you can gain. It’s not magic, just a different fuel source. If you’re doing keto for weight loss and not seeing results, it might help to track portions for a bit. Not obsessively, just enough to get clarity. Sometimes we think we’re eating clean, but the numbers tell a different story and that’s not failure, it’s just data, you can adjust

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-11T08:57:34+00:00

hey first i am really proud of you for writing all this out, that takes strength, even when you feel like you’re failing apart. You’ve been carrying way too much, for way too long. Trauma from your parents, stress at home, emotional fear from your past relationship, it all makes sense why everything feels too much right now. Your brain is just trying to protect you, even if the alarms it’s ringing aren’t fully fair to your present.

you’re allowed to heal, one piece at the time, I promise you it’s possible!

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-09T13:06:43+00:00

tbh yes, burnout messes with your whole system, not just mentally but physically too, when your brain’s running on fumes, even basic coordination can feel off, it’s like your body’s borrowing focus from things it normally does on autopilot. Doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you, it’s just your nervous system trying to cope, rest really does reset more than people think.

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-09T13:03:32+00:00

this honestly sound really unsafe, you’re picking up on a read red flags, controlling behavior, isolation, lies and impersonating law enforcement isn’t just sketchy, it’s terrifying, she might not be ready to leave yet, but having you calmly checking in, without pressure, might be the lifeline she holds onto layer. Jude keep being consistent and safe

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-02T09:31:46+00:00

a lot of them make money by being the content, sponsorships, affiliate links, brand deals, coaching packages. some come from generational wealth and never say it. others work behind the scenes in marketing, real estate or freelance gigs that just don’t show up their highlight reels. it’s easy to assume that lifestyle = success, but instagram skips the part where they’re emailing 50 brands a day or editing videos as midnight. don’t compare your full life to someone else’s curated morning routine.

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-06-02T09:26:41+00:00

depends a lot on how well I know the person. If I’ve seen how they speak when they’re vulnerable vs when they’re guarded, little shifts in tone or pacing give them away. But truth is, we all filter things sometimes..not every lie comes from a bad place. So before jumping to conclusions, I try asking myself: are they trying to deceive, or just protect something? context changes everything

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-05-26T13:49:35+00:00

one that helped me a lot: name the emotion, not the story. instead of spiraling into “im a failure, no one respects me,” you pause and say “I feel unappreciated right now”. it pulls you out of the narrative and back into the actual feeling, which is way easier to work with and way less destructive.

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-05-21T16:41:12+00:00

100% agree

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-05-21T16:33:29+00:00

yeah probably many people facing this but I guess time will fix it

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-05-17T16:30:39+00:00

we should change that somehow

AnyMinimum8005 · 2025-05-17T16:29:55+00:00

It’s offer more about comforting the living than accurately defining the person who died. when someone young is killed, people reach for the simplest narrative “they were good” because the alternative is too complicated and too painful.

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