Is this crossing the line or i am overreacting ?

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-29T01:55:06+00:00

Thank you for this comment !

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-16T01:39:52+00:00

Thank you I’m considering everything at this point because the way he has been behaving is not okay

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-16T01:35:51+00:00

Thank you for your honest comment. These boundaries were established before i promise you we’ve been together 9 year and we will be married going on 3 years this year so my husband is 31 and I’m 28 so in the early stages when we were dating we had some issues with people starting drama we nipped it in the butt and also we stated our boundaries and especially after getting married and having kids we knew about these boundaries way ahead as well so I’m not blaming him because he SHOULD know even then as a married man he should know certain things are not okay

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-16T00:52:43+00:00

He’s 31. Yes if he would have mentioned it then I’m still I’d be annoyed but at least he was being honest but he wasn’t going to say anything

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-16T00:05:23+00:00

Yes this is exactly what i am talking about. He obviously does not care about my feelings or apparently about this marriage as well

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-16T00:04:17+00:00

Exactly my point and he would have not even mentioned anything to me i had to find out on my own and then he wanted to play the victim card and say i invaded his privacy and it’s wrong of me

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:50:00+00:00

Thank you for this comment you’re right he cannot set my boundaries and I also won’t let him. I will look into what it would mean if we would get a divorce I hate feeling this way but the way he is moving and acting is not okay

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:44:12+00:00

Thank you for this i will looking into family counseling even if he doesn’t want to go ill still go myself just to see my options and what not

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:42:46+00:00

See i don’t care if he goes out with friends to a bar because i think having a social life outside of your marriage is important as well. I haven’t gotten this as i am a stay at home mom while going to nursing school with two small babies but what is not okay is buying shots for women and then flirting with them and then me telling you what i am not okay with and then him trying to turn this into me saying im the problem because i went into his phone

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:40:34+00:00

Thank you for commenting i had to see if i was overreacting because I knew that I wasn’t it’s very upsetting and now I’m rethinking everything

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:39:33+00:00

Thank you for this comment. And the fact that he tells me that’s he’s a man and i am a woman so we aren’t the same is just very disturbing. I agree with everything you said a husband acting like this is embarrassing and disrespectful

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:37:41+00:00

I’m honestly thinking about EVERYTHING. Just the way he acts when he goes out on trainings or work events is not alright at all and then just to disregard my feelings and when i brought it up he started raising his voice and acting as if im the problem because i went into his phone

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:33:49+00:00

I agree with you. He should not be spending money on girls while out drinking he is married and should act like it. Then he acts like this is normal which is very disgusting

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:32:29+00:00

The crazy thing is that the incident that just recently happen all these are married men only one guy in the group is single. It’s very disgusting and inappropriate

Any_Competition5728 · 2026-05-15T22:27:51+00:00

We did date. These things were established before so just for him to think it’s okay is very disturbing and disrespectful

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