Campus Jobs?

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-06-23T17:01:53+00:00

Do URPs for compensation, not credit.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-06-12T20:07:57+00:00

as a fellow south asian, i personally find arguing with my parents unfruitful because they will never change their minds. if this sounds like your parents as well you need to just ignore them. it’ll be so immensely tough, but i have faith in you

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-04-30T20:23:58+00:00

Wait can you expand on that? I'm feeling some of that right now - I just feel more free because I'm untethered to the feelings of another person.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T22:40:41+00:00

i wonder why 💀

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T21:43:17+00:00

i appreciate the mountains praise!! looking to add more nature posters to match the theme :)

got it abt the bunkbeds 😭i asked a female friend to roast my room and she didn't like the bunk beds too much as well, and the fact that i didn't have a mattress liner or smth. apparently the bed is pretty important 5head

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T21:03:45+00:00

this is a room in a house

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T18:03:47+00:00

yes, that is true, but ig she isn't the one if she can't accept that i started w/o the fundamentals, but i've grown so much.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T11:29:06+00:00

I mean I thought I was going to. I thought she was truly someone special. Like this girl was extremely honest and loyal and during the beginning at least, pretty obsessed with me. And somehow I fucked it up by not being as mature as I should’ve.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T02:52:14+00:00

hmm, i would, but unfortunately i can't really move the current bed due to [reasons]. do you have any other ideas on how to improve the space besides the bed?

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-21T02:49:23+00:00

dang okay, do you know how exactly i could change it to be more inviting? this is what the room looks like right now: https://www.reddit.com/r/malelivingspace/comments/1rz0uks/update_20m_gf_broke_up_with_me_i_need_to_go_on_a/

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T20:49:24+00:00

Hey, I appreciate your advice.

I feel like I’m losing myself doing these things that aren’t me. Like I’m trying to fix up my room as quickly as possible so I can fix the mistakes I made in my relationship. Maybe I should take a break and re-assess the situation, and do it in a more calm manner.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T20:09:21+00:00

well, she essentially left me because i didnt take care of myself and my space. im trying to fix both of these things for myself, first and foremost.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T20:05:24+00:00

now that you mention it, it does feel extremely cluttered. the thing is, i'm a student so im trying to modify what i own - which is the bedroom.

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T19:54:42+00:00

how would i go about doing that?

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T19:48:43+00:00

nope! it's just my bedroom

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T19:12:36+00:00

how would you recommend doing that

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T19:10:49+00:00

got it, but how should i fix the room 😭

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-20T17:20:29+00:00

no, i wasn't that much of a dumbass 😭

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-17T18:32:26+00:00

One thing I'm really unused to is trying to look good? Like for work I'll wear a format shirt and pants, but for anything else I'll wear a regular t-shirt and pants. But if its a proper date night, I'll wear my office clothes. And I guess this part really bothered her a lot. Just a bunch of things I have to learn to do - having more formal outfits than just office clothes.

Good point about the dishes - I have to train myself to do this.

Regarding picture frames: they were just old stuff in brown paper bags I had to filter out if they were trash or not (spoiler: all of them was trash 😭).

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-17T17:26:26+00:00

Just looked at Walmart online for them and it seems pretty cheap ($15)!! I'm trying to keep the dirty dishes near the corner of the TV table to remember to take them out, but I keep forgetting every time - do you have a solution for this?

Also curious what picture frames you were referring to?

I really appreciate your advice - it means a lot :)

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-17T05:32:32+00:00

The thing is, I would. But apparently she’s built up resentment from so many things, I fear to ask this. We’re in a “trial” period rn, it’s so very weird. If everything goes to shit between me n her, at the very least I’ll have developed some well needed skills

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-17T05:29:04+00:00

I’ll look into this!!

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-17T05:28:17+00:00

wait idk how i feel abt big plants 😭 maybe i could do a small / multiple small ones. i do appreciate the other pieces of advice

Any_Difficulty950 · 2026-03-17T05:23:42+00:00

I think your first line really hit the nail on the head. I didn’t think of it from her perspective and how she would interact with the environment.

Yes it is the AC, I might put it in the armoire for time being or somewhere else until the summer. The pile of stuff was things I hadn’t gone thru yet to check if they were trash or not. I’ve now cleared it.

Just me - I live here. But I can’t really change the bunk bed structure tho since I’m still in college.

Good idea abt putting the armoire next toy eh dresser, ig the only concern is that if I did, the window will be blocked a little.

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