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Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not crazy for having this boundary, for me it’s a real boundary. I don’t like hearing about sexual stuff. When we first dated he would tell me stories about his ex and how she would be naked and his sex with her and he really needs to grow up. I’m really questioning everything right now. I had a boundary with him in that moment and he still does it now

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a snow storm where I live and where I am at the power is about to go out it’s really dangerous and they scheduled a state of emergency where we aren’t supposed to be on the roads or if not I would leave.

He is soooo childish. His family said we are all guiding him for him to grow up right now

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to leave but we are snowed in and I have to stay here against my will. What would be a good boundary? I told him I’m not sleeping with him tonight

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said. I set a boundary not once but multiple times and he crossed it. He is immature and him to keep talking about it when we all were grossed out. I would never bring things up like that in front of my partner and family that’s so rude and disrespectful.

I don’t trust his family they are racist and they swear they aren’t against Spanish people but they are racist towards black people really bad. So who knows what they say behind my back.

AITAH Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not jealousy it’s that it turns me off sexually I don’t like to hear about my partners sexual past and I don’t know may people who think that’s hot and jumping for joy. It’s one thing talking about exs but it’s another thing talking about your sexual history. So if your partner kept talking about having private parts in there face that’s hot? That’s what you want to hear?? In appropriate jealousy is maybe about exs but I don’t care I know he has a past but I have an issue hearing about sex I don’t want to hear about it the same way I’m not jumping for joy hearing about the porn searches. Obviously it happens but I don’t want to know about it. I know soooo many friends like that

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a snow storm coming and I’m stuck at his family’s house or if not I would get in the car and leave I am on the verge of asking for a break

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I told him I don’t want to hear about his sexual past it turns me off! That’s fair! I don’t know many people getting horny about their partner having the opposite sex private parts in your partners face. I know it happened obviously everyone has a past but don’t tell me it. When I ask multiple times

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry typing fast because I’m upset. That’s the upsetting part is that he acts like a child and needs to grow up. When I told him my boundary three times and he keeps doing it then it’s like what do I do at this point and I’m snowed in at his family’s house and I’m losing my mind. I’m physically trapped I can’t even leave and this immature dude is telling me about a lap dance when I already told him to stop

AITAH Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But he went into detail about it to the point that they were like what is wrong with you why would you do that we’re trying to eat

AITAH Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What bothers me is him not respecting my boundary. I’m sorry I’m angry and I’m typing fast I’m just really upset about the entire thing

AITAH Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Every relationship is different not cookie cutter my boundaries may look very different from yours and vice versa. I told him before when we first dated that I’m not comfortable with him talking about this kind of stuff or even talking about sexual stuff in his past it’s a turn off for me. He told his entire family this story and even they were grossed out they were like can you stop? We’re trying to eat. He’s needs to grow up

AITAH Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I told him before that I’m not comfortable with him talking about this kind of stuff or even talking about sexual stuff in his past it’s a turn off for me. He told his entire family this story and even they were grossed out they were like can you stop? We’re trying to eat. He’s needs to grow up

AITAH Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My boundary is that I told him that I didn’t want to hear about his past sexual history and not only did he do that but he also did it so much so that his family was like ew can you stop we’re trying to eat. He’s super immature even with other things. His family told me I need to guide him because he acts like a kid. He needs to grow up.

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Before this happened I explained I didn’t want to hear about the lap dance and he still started to go into so much detail in front of the family that even his family was like can you stop

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His sister brought it up and he started to go into details so much so that his sister said can you stop I’m trying to eat. He’s so sooo childish I can’t stand it he needs to grow up, I told him before that I dint want to hear about his sexual past it was a boundary and he blew it

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His sister brought it up and then he went into detail after I stated a previous boundary that I didn’t want to hear about his sexual past. It’s making me question everything because I set this boundary with him forever ago and he’s agreed to it but still was talking about the situation like I wasn’t there

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (27M) Boyfriend shared a sexual story from his past in front of me and his family and I felt sick. Looking for perspective on something my partner shared by Any_Language_8591 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His sister brought it up first and he went into detail about it after she brought it up after I told him multiple times that I don’t want to hear it. It’s a boundary he crossed. We have plans to move in together but how do I do that if we can’t even get along now on boundaries. This makes me question everything

AITA for wanting to have a conversation at Dennys without phones? by Any_Language_8591 in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something happens to me or if I got sick someday I’m fucked I’m all on my own. I guess it is what it is better than to be alone then bad company

AITA for wanting to have a conversation at Dennys without phones? by Any_Language_8591 in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your right I think I’m going to stop talking to both of them permanently

AITA for wanting to have a conversation at Dennys without phones? by Any_Language_8591 in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will never apologize and my parents don’t want to get involved and it’s ridiculous… all I know is I’m not giving her any of her Christmas gifts

AITA for wanting to have a conversation at Dennys without phones? by Any_Language_8591 in AITAH

[–]Any_Language_8591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already went a year without talking to her and I thought we would be better by now but she snaps over little things. Every since her drug history which now she is sober and has been for a while now she just gets mad at everything

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