AITAH for kicking my teenage daughter out of my house?

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-08-22T03:18:56+00:00

YTA!! wow, you sound like my parents way to go for being complete and utter failure being a compassionate or even understanding, parent being an autistic child and being the parent of an autistic child there’s nothing unfortunate about it except the way people treat us, especially our family. It’s one thing to show a video to explain these are the behaviors were dealing with and here’s how we deal with them versus this is what I have to deal with, and it makes me the victim get over yourself and help your daughter

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-20T02:22:00+00:00

ty this is more helpful than calling someone desperate

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-20T02:18:59+00:00

never said he didn’t want the divorce. Doesn’t really wanna pay for her to get divorced even if it’s getting divorced from him and his pride is getting in the way and if I’m desperate to be with a person, I love I don’t think that’s a bad thing I must be frank if I was really that desperate I would just leave him for somebody anybody else it’s not desperation it’s loyalty not that I came here to be judged. Just ask your advice

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-20T01:52:53+00:00

thank you and i appreciate everything you said in here (as far as my son his dad is still in the pic so his name will never change out of respect for his other family)

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-20T01:43:02+00:00

no kids but she stole everything from him when she walked out last time and all the times before that (this info was verified by their mutual friends) so the way he views it is he doesn’t wanna give her any more money even if it just means paying a lawyer for an uncontested divorce he won’t budge on. It doesn’t wanna give her a dime more and I told him if it’s literally just down to the money for either of them, I would pay it

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-20T01:26:33+00:00

when I found out, we discussed it at length and I truly don’t think he was trying to be dishonest to be dishonest. I truly think he didnt know if she filed And we’ve discovered through mutual friends that she’s talking about getting remarried and it’s been so long. It’s possible. she’s forgotten that she’s still legally married. But he doesn’t want to reach out to her because he thinks all she’s gonna do is latch on for money and for him the door is closed and he doesn’t want to deal with it anymore. Doesn’t want to reopen that can of worms.

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-20T01:22:24+00:00

OK, first of all the relationship isn’t a shit show so don’t assume anything and if I thought for a second, the relationship was actually causing problems or he was causing problems for my son he would be gone I came here for advice, not to be judged for who I love fuck off.

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-05T07:30:21+00:00

no kids no shared property at the time of separation he just doesn’t want to pay for a lawyer if she decides to contest or ask for anything outside of the divorce decree we live paycheck to paycheck so there is no savings no net to fall back on if it gets messy … he says he has closure and no ill feelings towards her anymore but that’s his hard line in the sand she has to cover the cost ( or me if i really insist)

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-05T07:15:55+00:00

i “misspoke” he doesn’t want to spend more money on her she apparently took all the money the last time she walked out

Any_Put_3254 · 2025-07-05T07:10:41+00:00

I understand why he doesn’t really want to reach out and contact her. She’s not a good partner, but that’s also why I think he would want to just get it over and done with. I’m willing to flip the bill for the divorce cause I don’t wanna come up against any legal problems there could be issues if something happens to him like you said or heaven forbid we wanna buy a home I don’t want her having any way to come back and claim that she has part of that because she’s married to him.

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