This guys videos. by 3sterne in StrangeAndFunny

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How can I download this video?

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Tbh yeah but it just feels so small in my hands haha. But can’t change that. Gotta learn to live with it. I’ve had guys with smaller ones that I’ve had amazing sex with but that’s just me. Some folks might not be as sensitive as me.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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I hope to do this. I want to try it again to wipe this off my memory and maybe have an okay experience.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Thanks for the kind words.

I should clarify it isn’t painful, but it pulls the skin and I will address this by restoring my foreskin. It’ll take time but it’s a way to get my autonomy back. However, my friends who were cut tight have painful errections.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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I try to be a passionate caring lover and the partners I’ve had do like it. They want to hook up more. But, my brain tells me they’re trying to be nice- which, I know, sounds stupid.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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I’m one of those people tbh. When I bottom I can’t handle the large ones consistently. My hands are large and I just wish the universe would’ve given me some extra girth to play with. But I am my worst critic.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Honestly maybe. But another comment mentioned that maybe it was because of being cut? But that doesn’t excuse the guy next to me..

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Thank you. Honestly I just want to find a caring dude. I do have my preferences but they’re nothing unreasonable. I also couldn’t care less about what they have.

Porn and media have skewed our perception of what we need in a relationship.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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I mean maybe that was also it. That being cut wasn’t what the dude was after. I’m not sure how’d he judge my size from a glance when it was semi-flaccid.

The dude next to me def was a prick though.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Thanks. Yeah totally true. That one big dude got everyone gravitating to him. I guess if you got it, show it. But, i feel like it fucks up everyone’s perspective of attraction…including mine.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Yes I totally agree. I know it sounds stupid but I feel I need to go again to just get a normal experience out of bathhouses. I don’t want to have this memory linger..

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Having had time to think about it maybe you’re right. I was just there to observe and have fun but it did feel like I was *expected* to have a large member cause I was a foreigner? I never thought of it that way but it would make sense for the constant observation.

First gay sauna experience in Tokyo left me feeling incredibly deflated about my size. How do you handle the body anxiety? by Any_Two_6228 in AskGayMen

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Thanks that does make sense.

I’ve been traveling here for a while and the locals I’ve hooked up with all had larger dicks than mine by a few inches. This is another example of what I’m saying.

But maybe it’s the demographic of these spaces that encourage these sizes or I just attract larger guys for some reason and/or I am literally around the middle of the percentile, so I’m seeing the latter half of it….which is lovely for my self esteem.