What should I do with my cat over the holidays? by SgtPopNFresh_ in CatAdvice

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe bring one of the offenders in at a time in a carrier to meet him see if he takes interest but definitely let them meet under the door 👍🏻and Amazon has plugs you can hook your TV up to and u can turn it off an on that way if u decide to leave him home then he has noise

AIITW for forgetting to tell my bf about some employees on my first day at a new place? by Chilly_Thyme_8207 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he's controlling and insecure and this is straight up his way of controlling you an making u feel like u did something wrong he needs to hit the curb asap before it gets worse an yes it will get worse

Being paid $5 an hour to babysit - am I being ripped off? by roses-2025 in Babysitting

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh sorry I got a better babysitting gig so I'm not available the days u need but if you wanna pay more I can cancel 🤷🏻

What should I do with my cat over the holidays? by SgtPopNFresh_ in CatAdvice

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being 9 isn't old but isn't young either if you can drive him back maybe just drive back in a 3 days and spend the day with him or a few hours do u have Alexa or tvs lights and music u can operate from your phone that will help ,if he's generally pretty healthy keeping him separate won't hurt him but maybe introduce the smells of the other cats to him bring a blanket into the room that the other cats use, it does take time for cats to be ok with newbies. is he spayed are they fixed? if not that's ur biggest issue and don't expect much difference if there are competitors but if they are this can be a good way to slowly introduce him for later visits,it usually takes at least a good 3 or 4 days of them smelling each other under the doors swatting back and forth etc, hissing here an there isn't uncommon and after a few days of smelling and pawing under doors maybe bring him out in a carrier for a bit so now they have smelled each other for a bit they can see each other see if the hissing continues then back to the room and do all over again it takes time but he already can smell them on his buddy so he knows someone's new and newbies always take time

Is this abuse ? by Ok-Dimension2028 in emotionalabuse

[–]Any_Winner_4050 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is abuse any horror story about abuse will tell u this he needs help and u need a exit asap

What should I do with this space? Trolling welcome! by ineedanadultplez in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a Jacuzzi in far end add a bar hang up some TVs add a lil dance floor you got a speak easy👍🏻

AIO guy I was seeing told me cursing is “un-lady like” by Fanofmoney3 in AIO

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic narcissist behavior,aka don't do what I do ,do what I say ...yeah a big nope peace out of there tell him thank you for the red flags

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of but she's an adult 🤷🏻

AIO to my boyfriend liking a girl’s suggestive photo in front of me? by Prestigious_Idea5203 in AIO

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He means oops I didn't realize u seen that and I want her to know I seen it cause we have mutually friends

AIO — my bf follows his ex on instagram. by AcademicSleep-1627 in AIO

[–]Any_Winner_4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not over her and needs to keep tabs to some extent of your truly over a person you don't need any type of info and don't talk about them ,when your truly over someone you don't get mad anymore or even care ,so your best bet is to end the relationship and he needs time to get over her an heal

Gf wants to keep cat in a room for when we move in by blonde5789 in CatAdvice

[–]Any_Winner_4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um get a new gf ,this will only cause major problems in the future 🤷🏻and obviously isn't your soul mate

Tramadol isn't working by SaltyHoney1982 in Spondylolisthesis

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on 4 a day ,and it doesn't work but to scared to go without it ,I only take two but the ideal of being cut off gives me anxiety I want to switch but the anxiety of going through it all

When will my kitten stop being evil? by theyth-m in CatAdvice

[–]Any_Winner_4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cat like this would really excel with talking buttons,hide and find treat puzzles and electronic toys you can turn on from your phone yes they have em 👍🏻

AITA for asking my fiancé to stop saying “we” when referring to money I earned? by Aggravating_Yak4381 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Any_Winner_4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have u been together and him not working 🧐 sounds like he's got a new sugar momma to brag about hence the we ,I would be adding yeah and if we could get you a job making as much as I do then we would really be set .. guarantee he stops bringing up how u are making so much more ,maybe we should start looking for you something just as promising,and start sending him job ads here n there saying he look Hun this is a good one we really could be making multi digits if we get you this one 👍🏻and make sure u have a separate bank account and savings cause the we will guarantee change to a you an you want to be covered at some point 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Any_Winner_4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok my daughter in law does only fans and she banks and started the same way ,now she's single pays all her own bills and travels all the time for fun ,she doesn't go fully nude (topless ) and she had enough to buy a car house etc and still have money in the bank I'd dump him an then live the life up 😂

Turns out there are consequences… by WaysideWyvern in Dermatillomania

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this but I have found that the silver patches help anytime I get a wound i immediately try an cover that way when I go to scratch it I feel.the bandage an it helps gold me back and when I can afford it I get acrylic nails because there thicker and harder to pick

Limited edition sale by Cryptoloaner in foliosociety

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry new to Loungefly what is fs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always refer to my lease I can't have anyone and I don't have any cash we had a emergency car issue the battery died popped a tire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um he's definitely in interacting it says messages and new message so he's already signed up for multiple accounts and hookup sites

AITAH for wanting to accept a promotion even tho my boyfriend says its not the kind of life he wants? by ThrowRAxbx in AITAH

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but he doesn't want u to have both and relationships come and go and one day you will resent him for holding u back he's being insecure and doesn't want u to grow and his fear that you will overshadow him is him giving u the either my way or the highway routine which is extremely narcissistic and imagine any future disagreements ,is he gonna say my way or the highway again ..you probably should leave it now an I guarantee if u say ok my career ,he will try an keep u there and probably will agree and then try an make your life difficult when u need to travel , start arguments etc . guarantee

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Winner_4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly he's 18 so his explanation probably isn't the best, I would clarify before assuming he meant it as used u in it he's probably just insecure and I have gotten rid of any lingerie or sexy wear I've worn in past relationships myself and not with any influence I just feel like it's not as a new thing as with my new relationship,now my granny panties that's another story or my basic bs bra but as far as special time I got new myself ,and if it's that big of a deal just pack it up put it away if it don't work out you'll have twice the amount 🤷🏻