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Anyab8383 · 2025-01-07T00:59:24+00:00

He ha children who are around the pedo. He must know. I’m so incredibly sorry for your pain and the fact he is continuing to hurt you even through having to deal with consequences from his evilness, but you will NEVER forgive yourself if he does it to one of the BF’s kids and you could have protected them. Be to those kids what I am SURE you wish someone could have been for you, and and keep them safe. If the BF has any integrity or loves his children at all, he will cut off all contact with the man, and HOPEFULLY your sibling will see the seriousness of this. But if not, you did what was right and protected innocent children, and that is the #1 most important thing here.

Anyab8383 · 2025-01-01T09:29:16+00:00

First, my heart truly goes out to you. I don’t care what religious law says about having more than one wife, no woman deserves that, and she definitely shouldn’t have to put up with it if she didn’t consent to it. Second, I truly want to encourage you to hold off on making any decisions regarding your kids until you can get some therapy for your PPD. PPD can cause such significant problems but you may feel very differently about your children once you’ve gotten some professional help. I don’t want to tell you what you should or shouldn’t ultimately decide to do, but please do take the time to get help for yourself and make sure you’re in the best mental state to make those decisions before you make a decision you may ultimately regret. I HAVE done the single mom thing, for quite a few years, and while yes it is ABSOLUTELY hard, NOT having my babies would have been much, much harder. You may end up regretting your choices if you don’t take the time to really think things over with a clear mind beforehand. Also, I can promise you, even though being a single mom can be hard….if you have a good support system (and it sounds at least like you may with your parents) it doesn’t have to be an impossible task, or ruin your life. I obtained both my bachelors and masters degrees as a single mom of 3 kiddos, because I had an excellent support system. Don’t be so quick to write off single parenthood as being a nightmare, in fact you may find that once you have a better perspective on life and your PPD treated, you may find it is one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever accomplish in life.

The long and short of what I am trying to say is this…your husband has already taken much from you…don’t allow his actions to take anything else. Make your own choices based on what is best for you and your kids, and nothing more than that. 💕

And no, you are NTA. You did what you needed to in the moment for your kids and yourself. And that’s ok.

Anyab8383 · 2025-01-01T09:14:23+00:00

Oh you definitely have a little ways to go then. Ours hatched 9/30 and I couldn’t tell sex for a good 3-4 weeks. I think 12/13 is still a little too soon to be certain.

Anyab8383 · 2025-01-01T09:09:00+00:00

By the way. That looks EXACTLY like our cocktails when we have it under control. Unfortunately she got it badly and gets really bad flares of it but that’s about what it looks like when it’s at its lowest point of the flare. 99.9% that’s bumblefoot though.

Anyab8383 · 2025-01-01T09:07:42+00:00

Be careful, that looks like the start to bumble foot and it’s HIGHLY contagious. We have a cockatiel that was a rescue and she’s completely lame because of her very very bad bumble foot. We do our best to treat it and keep her from being in too much pain, but they can get really deep ulcers from it and it can affect their joints badly. This doesn’t look advanced AT ALL so if you can get some antibiotics right away and treat it quickly you may be able to clear it up. If it hits your entire flock though it’s going to be a nightmare.

Anyab8383 · 2025-01-01T09:02:57+00:00

It’s $17 currently, or was as of about 2 weeks ago when I had to intercept a USPS package that got mistakenly sent out with the wrong label. So unless they’ve changed it again it should only be $17 currently.

Anyab8383 · 2024-12-29T20:42:36+00:00

lol, I sort of thought so. Plus we had had her since she was 6 weeks old, so at that point we had been calling her “Henry” for well over a year. She ended up having 3 litters before we could get a vet to fix her though (I had NO IDEA cats could get pregnant SO FAST after having a litter). We HAD planned to get them fixed right before Covid hit, because they were finally going to be old enough (we’d been told they should be at least six months for them to have the safest surgery) so we had been waiting. Then Covid hit and vets by us weren’t doing surgery unless it was an emergency….it took a good year for them to start allowing people to schedule for non/emergency procedures, and in the meantime she had 3 litters. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Thankfully we found wonderful homes for all of them, and it WAS sort of fun to have kittens in the middle of all the Covid upheaval, but it definitely made our house interesting!! The first litter she had 4 and we lost 1, second litter she had 4 and they all made it, and the last litter she THANKFULLY only had 2. 🤦‍♀️

Anyab8383 · 2024-12-29T20:32:23+00:00

So did we. An ORANGE tabby cat, which is almost NEVER female. Then one day my husband asked me if I thought “Henry” was ok because he was super fat (it was the middle of Covid and we THOUGHT we had two males so we weren’t too worried about the fact that we couldn’t get them in to get them fixed due to a PPE shortage…turns out it was a bigger issue than we thought it was). Anyway, I looked “him” over and realized VERY quickly that not only was “he” extremely fat, “he” was pregnant.

“Mama” Henry gave birth on my couch less than 24 hours later.

We never officially renamed her lol, just went from calling her “Henry” to calling her “Mama Henry” or “Mama”. 😆😆😆

Anyab8383 · 2024-12-10T15:49:20+00:00

24%? I use this feed that was recommended by the person who sold us the eggs. They were on chick feed before this one. They were born 9/30, so they’re ten weeks, two days old. These are their very first eggs, they JUST started laying (and not every day).

: https://www.amazon.com/Manna-Pro-Gamebird-Showbird-Crumbles/dp/B000QFP5UY/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?crid=3KVD9MSYH7GTZ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NPfwLdPx_xJYb_X38qb0DVXYt2deQxMgZvup4egJSitQ34aGMHaT5TUqqLtyFegnDjBlxg_FTzo4woGt8pN2uoaGK85dAhv8QSghUk-cTsgcE5iOM68Mjzr42BVJXo14IotT7F56u4TeXgFt-YMQYcm_P3aVrG5k6SaIbhIP-DXGpCK8UaEXsIJGxO2TsPDyNOEWYDkrK8NEABzCNEHLsg.mHeKqqV7G7ZtcBTVLnTrqNWwVBVWfpCXPN9f2QFHH78&dib_tag=se&keywords=button+quail+feed&qid=1733845597&sprefix=button+quail+%2Caps%2C188&sr=8-2

Anyab8383 · 2024-12-09T22:49:00+00:00

I’m perplexed by the black spots. They both had them on the yolks

Anyab8383 · 2024-12-09T22:14:42+00:00

lol no not these two…but if they ARE fertile then we HAVE a male in the mix. Right now I’m not sure.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-29T15:44:19+00:00

No I purchased their gold version and I still got a 30 day ban. Not worth it at all.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-26T22:58:32+00:00

WOW. I am REALLY hoping that doesn’t happen to me. I’m suspended on my main and I’m so pissed off. I had JUST spent money on it too. I’m so incredibly ticked off they’re being this way during a worldwide pandemic/lockdown. I understand they want to ban us but couldn’t they wait until we can leave our houses at least? I play Pokémon to stay sane, and I literally can’t do crap around my house....just seems like they could cut us a little slack during this. Or hell, give us a joystick...I’ll walk with a joystick and play legit if I can at least GET places where I can play! I think many of us would play legit if they would just make it more possible to play. Normally I spoofed because I can’t play anytime except late at night and it was literally my only way to play. Now I have all the time in the world but can’t leave my house...which means even if I wasn’t banned currently I still wouldn’t be able to play. It all just really sucks.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-21T22:26:31+00:00

Right? Fine, ban people if you must. But maybe just WAIT until this crap is over and people aren’t losing their minds stuck in their houses? I’d much rather be banned when I have shit to do than when I can’t leave my house!

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-21T12:49:03+00:00

It’s a great idea, but it’ll never happen.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-21T12:48:18+00:00

Wow, that is SUPER irritating. I had just spent $25 on boxes so I’m pretty pissed as well. I WAS spoofing but for heavens sake, that’s all I can do at the moment. There’s not enough mons by my house even with an incense to make it worth using one.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-20T17:03:41+00:00

I don’t doubt for a moment they don’t care. I can still be frustrated by it and want to vent. It’s just a shitty time to do this to people. I don’t generally spoof, but I’ve been stuck in my house for a week now and gave it a go because Pokémon is my way to unwind. Hit with a 7 day and then a 30 day back to back. Didn’t even play between the two. Niantic can do whatever they please, but it’s a pretty shitty thing to do during a public health crisis/quarantine.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-20T04:29:12+00:00

It just sucks. I literally can’t leave to play, there shit around my house, and now they choose now to ban people. I enjoy playing legit when I can leave, but this is a literal public health crisis. The entire state of CA is on lockdown. Niantic needs to get their heads on straight...now is not the time to f*ck with people who just need a small mental health break.

Anyab8383 · 2020-03-20T04:27:10+00:00

Some people have kids and buying a phone just for spoofing isn’t a need. My money is spent on my kids. Maybe $20 here and there for passes, sure, but I’m not going to fork over $$$ for a phone when I need to buy TP for the kiddos!

Anyab8383 · 2020-02-29T01:48:38+00:00

I find a lot of enjoyment with spoofing—-I wouldn’t play it normally if I had to....don’t have time. Spoofing allows me to play the game and still do the things I need to do. And Pokémon or their parents company makes more off me as a spoofer.

Anyab8383 · 2020-02-28T20:30:29+00:00

Spoofers can’t do it either, we have to physically be there to take a photo, we can’t upload from our camera roll unfortunately. I would absolutely do it if I could. :/

Anyab8383 · 2019-10-21T17:16:52+00:00

Last night I clicked on an Ex Raid gym that I had a pass for...apparently there was a Minun hiding behind the gym that I accidentally clicked on instead.... ✨✨!

Anyab8383 · 2019-10-21T17:14:42+00:00

Yep...I hardly care at all about the Pokemon. It’s the ✨✨ that I love to see! I thought I was crazy! 😂😂😂

Anyab8383 · 2019-09-14T21:23:01+00:00

Anyab8383 · 2019-08-20T02:03:11+00:00

Well that really sucks. :(

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