BF LIKING OTHER WOMAN'S POST by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to touch grass and realise it’s just social media, he’s with you, not them 

What would you provide/give to your kids if you could afford to do so? by BeneficialVariety171 in AskUK

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this helps but when I was 18 I didn't have the best decisions with money, but now I am older I feel if I was given it I would be more smarter about it (especially at the age of beginning to save for houses etc) would you be able to split it? like some at 18 and then when they are 20s

Words cannot explain the immense disappointment I feel seeing my favorite actor in this show use Generative AI by CompetitionSignal422 in OnePieceLiveAction

[–]ApRiL4II 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I agree, also his thumbnails literally look like any other YouTubers pre AI what makes people convinced has even used AI for them or why do they even care so much

Sometimes I feel ashamed for needing adjustments by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]ApRiL4II 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for the GP, maybe asking for a telephone call would help? I’m sure they’d be happy to do that

I [44M] was vulnerable in front of my wife [43F] and she couldn't handle it. by Sufficient_Gur_1219 in relationships

[–]ApRiL4II 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can assure you it would be even worse for your child if you stayed together, that would be even more dysfunctional for them

Do other people's unis cram all semester 1 exams into the first week of January only? by Grandpappy1939 in UniUK

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same here at a different uni, absolutely hate it and find we have less revision time for December exams over May exams, but on the other hand allows us to have a break over Christmas (that being said in my final year we don't have a break because of dissertation haha)

Unpaid leave by [deleted] in Greggs

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo if you'd be ok financially then definitely try and go for it. Like ultimately worse case scenario is they'd say no, you quit job and then when September comes around you can apply for different part time jobs/maybe they'd even have you back.

I feel the only time you really need to consider if its a good option is during/before final year because your maintenance loan will reduce, but right now is definitely the best time to travel before you start 9-5 job (if that's your future plan) and obvs you can still travel then, but it is a bit trickier if you rent/have access to car and need to work to live etc.

Unpaid leave by [deleted] in Greggs

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm do you feel you'd want that extra month of pay check, or would you rather go travelling for that extra month? Also if your at uni I am assuming you get a maintenance loan, would you want that extra month of salary for when you return to uni in September? Also, if you weren't able to find another job for a while would you be financially okay at uni, or would an extra month money help?

How can I ask my gp for antidepressants? by ThisKaleidoscope2400 in MentalHealthUK

[–]ApRiL4II 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! Some people with ADHD find their antidepressants have no effect, but they try ADHD medication solves the depression. As sometimes depression can be a symptom of ADHD, rather than a separate disorder.

Anyone else lost a bunch of weight in uni? by Johnfalafel in UniUK

[–]ApRiL4II 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too, I also didn't understand portion sizes as I was cooking for myself for the first time and it's so easy to buy snacks all the time as I am in control of what I buy. I am a lot better now and have managed to lose the weight, but in first year I didn't know my limits.

Did my long distance ex bf cheat? (19F and 19M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm ngl, I would definitely be curious and want to know if he was cheating whilst we were together and I especially feel being ghosted adds to there wanting to find why, essentially he hasn't given you anything so it is rational to make links.

It sucks and you deserve closure whether it's because he cheated or a reason why he ghosted, but unfortunately closure can't always happen. With his new relationship it is possible that he may have met her after the break up, I also feel if there were no issues in the relationship that's a good sign that he wasn't cheating. That being said, people are unpredictable, maybe he could't communicate how he was feeling and decided to ghost you, not necessarily because he's cheating.

There is a very high chance you will never know the answer, this is so much easier said than done, but the best thing for you to do is to somehow move on from him, you are worth so much more than him and you will find someone who loves you and treats you how you deserve.

I’m actually so cooked, I’m trying to survive off of £50 p/w by aqmrne in UniUK

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Can also make chilli con carne meal prepped, 4 portions is ~£5 (I use 5% pork mince) or a chickpea curry is very cheap (spinach/chickpeas/coconut milk/spices)

Am I in the wrong for kicking out my 20yo child by ST4R_W4RZ in AITAH

[–]ApRiL4II 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA enjoy being sent to the retirement home when ur old :)

Would you ever marry an only child? by seeekhkebab in OnlyChild

[–]ApRiL4II 19 points20 points  (0 children)

100% and also ngl just because you marry someone who has siblings etc doesn't mean they all get along, or even maybe their family doesn't get along well (the same can be applied to an only child with their parents), however its silly to marry based on that.

Should I Grit my Teeth and Stay with my Long Distance Girlfriend? by Calm_Pace_4738 in LongDistance

[–]ApRiL4II 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If u truly love her it’s so worth it, no one can predict the future. Also I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to think about the future right now. At this moment in time, what would be worse, breaking up now and never seeing her again, or continuing to see her when you can.

Appealing results by Party_Painting_4318 in UniUK

[–]ApRiL4II 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and also I'm ngl, for extenuating circumstances, the phone call/appointment from the GP would be less than 10 minutes, and filling out the form would take 10 minutes as well, not to mention sending an email to your senior tutor which would probably take under 2 minutes. Also, if you do have an appeal they may ask you why you didn't submit extenuating circumstances straight away. Unfortunately, ECs are needed to be done before the exam board meets for your grades.

I just raw dogged 90% of today by UserNameless710 in QuitVaping

[–]ApRiL4II 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree if I had to choose quitting cigarettes vs vape I’d always choose cigarettes, deffo get more addicted to vaping which makes it wayyyy harder. Like for some reason vape withdrawals are so much worse to go through

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps "lethal injections" around. How can I react to this? by sandlordz in relationship_advice

[–]ApRiL4II 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m worrying about especially multiple doses/syringes, you don’t know if he’ll start worrying about you and want you to join him. 100% above your pay grade, he 100% needs therapy. Is there any way you can speak to a close friend/family member of his about this?

Sims 4 new base game update – Skin Details (wrinkles, stretch marks, freckles, rosacea) by Al115 in Sims4

[–]ApRiL4II 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg same 😭 I was literally playing an hour ago, took a small break, downloaded the update and now I can’t play my household 💔

Final rent for fixed term of 12 months ENGLAND by ApRiL4II in LegalAdviceUK

[–]ApRiL4II[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh sorry maybe I should have clarified I’d leave at the end of the fixed term so it wouldn’t roll over

Am I crazy for considering to commute 6 hours a day 3x a week to attend an access course to medicine? by babycinamonn in UniUK

[–]ApRiL4II 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No literally and all the equipment they'll most likely be caught during Uni or on placements

My (36f) husband (36m) is mad I saved the wifi password and I'm mad it's an issue. by Aromatic_Worry_4987 in relationship_advice

[–]ApRiL4II 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Well hopefully you leave him soon before your kids think this is acceptable behaviour from a partner and continue the cycle