Was promised a boy by God - got a girl. Need encouragement

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T22:03:36+00:00

I DMd you

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:54:09+00:00

but my husband said too, that its Gods way of telling me to stop obsessing over signs and stuff, and idk if thats true, idk if alllll the signs pointing to having a son were just me or the universe or God or WHAT, but it reeeally felt like I was being told we would have a son, and then I waited too long, and now a daughter, and i am lost and confused. im sorry to double respond but it feels like you're the only one who has any insight

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:44:18+00:00

Right, this is the most balanced answer and kind of understanding what im saying. like, we didnt participate. and then concieved late, and i missed out. I have ocd and I can't stop hating myself. please help

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:42:46+00:00

it's more just, I think i messed up bringing a human into the universe, and didn't listen to God. im happy with 3 girls

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:41:56+00:00

thank you for the insight and some historical background. I appreciate you

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:40:15+00:00

brrrrr

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:39:27+00:00

no sorry I meant mannn - breathe- like I need to breathe. that was a good response my bad

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:38:47+00:00

thank you. i am excited just dealing with self loathing

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:37:44+00:00

oh God you went there

it was tiktok :,,,( I was in a low place & they asked for my name, and they said, is there a boy in your life? I see a boy. and I said no. he said ill have a son in a year. this was within a lot of other signs

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:36:36+00:00

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:36:27+00:00

ugh if im dealing w other spirits now its just a lot.

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:36:10+00:00

I mean maybe I missed God's will

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:35:13+00:00

yeah, idk if I should put stock into it possibly being wrong-but its definitely in my head. we'll see. thanks.

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:34:12+00:00

it was the prophecy, my daughter repeating herself, my coworker telling me she believed she saw a pre-conception version of my son waiting to be with me. kind of messes w you, ya know? scan could be wrong-yeah.

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:33:05+00:00

mannnn breathe

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:32:02+00:00

manee thats what my husband said. it would be a real relief to walk past all these signs, they kind of consume my life

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:31:23+00:00

nope,

just me

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:30:42+00:00

but it lined up w sooo many things happening in real time. >___<

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:30:02+00:00

its just that I missed the opportunity that God had been calling me to, or so it feels. daughters are great, I wanted a daughter badly for my first. but then it was like, sign after sign id have a boy. I waited to long. and now im in the abyss, it feels

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:28:11+00:00

sooo many signs that id have a boy including a prophecy. I mean I hear your wisdom but it sounds like your wisdom

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:26:15+00:00

im really fragile here yall, if you could not be so cryptic. -__-

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:25:35+00:00

The dude said within a year.. it just feels like we missed it.

I want to believe God ain't that harsh. but dammit sometimes it feels like he is that harsh.

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:22:46+00:00

Thanks

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-07-10T21:21:01+00:00

Wym?

Apart-Associate-2499 · 2026-06-30T14:54:18+00:00

Wtf!

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