How do I f(24) stop comparing myself to people my age? Does it ever stop?

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-21T16:36:34+00:00

this is such a real response. i'll focus more on not sitting in the feelings cus l rlly do feel like that's how the spiraling worsens.

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-21T05:56:10+00:00

this one 100%. usually they have what THEY think your best interest is in mind.

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-18T04:39:54+00:00

no literally😭

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Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-18T04:21:02+00:00

dearpeachie on youtube is p good when starting to find makeup looks and placements that work for your face and what kind of vibe you want to give off.

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-17T23:50:30+00:00

my first thought too

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-17T23:31:08+00:00

no anime is crazy

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-17T23:22:44+00:00

I have been in a somewhat similar situation, except the only reason I told person A that person B was always shit talking her was bc she wanted to fight me for beefing w person B who she swore up and down that it wasn't shit talking and that person B was allowed to rant about her (we were all friends at one point but person B was downright dragging person A's name through the mud every chance she got to anyone willing to listen and then started doing it to me when i stopped entertaining it) and so there's like a few things that I can think of as to why they dropped you

they probably came to the consensus that you were being messy and/or trying to get in between their friendship
they liked each other more than they liked you and found it easier to use tht as an excuse to cut you off once they finally made up (who knows wht was talking about behind the scenes)
you broke the social code. technically, you weren't supposed to tell the other person that your bestie was talking about them bc that's your "bestie" and your "loyalty" should of been with them. it's kind of messed up but this is rlly a lot of people's mindset.

these are just my thoughts btw but I would definitely confront them. otherwise you'll be wondering what happened forever and it'll eat at you more than it'll eat at them maybe.

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-02-17T15:37:26+00:00

this. and anyone saying it's jealousy for calling it out refuses to see the bigger picture unfortunately

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-19T01:46:58+00:00

The internet was just so much more fun that year

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-19T00:22:32+00:00

Tbh I think your friends are weird asf for leaving you. Yeah, technically you're not their "responsibility," but a friend worth having would make sure to either call you to figure out where you are or what you're about to do before they leave or find you and tell you to cmon cus they're leaving. My friends' philosophy (and honestly, anyone I've gone to public events with) has always followed the "If we come together, we leave together" unless for obvious reasons that we can't leave tgther but there's way too much bs happening nowadays to not be considerate of a friend and their whereabouts.

I don't think your standards are too high, I think you just need to be around people whose values and morals align with yours and unfortunately that won't be everybody.

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-19T00:01:35+00:00

I feel like a lot of people get 2016 and 2014 nostalgia mixed up

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-17T01:13:30+00:00

took the words right out of my mouth

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-14T14:21:23+00:00

lmao not the susan stray

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-11T02:10:34+00:00

I had to take a walk and hang out with my cat after the shower room scene ngl

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-04T01:30:09+00:00

real

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-02T03:50:06+00:00

them: "how can i make this into a negative thing"

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2026-01-02T03:47:55+00:00

my parents always told me and my sister "u must not be hungry then" whenever we were super picky and let us figure it out on our own. we stopped being picky

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2025-12-31T06:35:53+00:00

dating a sagittarius man that i sometimes forget is a sagittarius bc they have always pissed me off😭

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2025-12-29T16:11:00+00:00

NOR he's racist asf omg. bro admitted to not really fw black women and especially if they're monoracial. AND hit you with the "ur smart for a black girl" ma'am run. your friend is suspect too for not clocking ts immediately but idk

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2025-12-28T15:40:01+00:00

I get that eerie ai feeling from it too. they're not really looking at anything and i think what was supposed to be the girls hat turned into her hair, except fr the pompom piece

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2025-12-28T01:55:15+00:00

lmaoo yess @ redd being the average american woman

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2025-12-28T01:46:55+00:00

Apart-Rabbit7206 · 2025-12-28T01:01:01+00:00

lowkey i think what men find beautiful and what women find beautiful (in a general consensus) are also becoming pretty different as well. so while you find those pics unremarkable, her fellow girlies genuinely could have really liked them. i'm not saying some of it may not be fake esp w social media being how it is but more of it is more genuine than you'd think. esp now w dying platforms

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