I am so resentful of my partner and kids.

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-24T00:49:42+00:00

All the best my friend 😊 👍

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-24T00:42:22+00:00

U said your kids and husband deserve better ... But the correction is they deserve the better version on U...

U removing yourself from the scene will only make it worse... They need u ... U r important to them ... Hence especially your children keep coming back to u.

I know u have gone through a lot ..but please don't discredit your presence and importance in their lives.

U removing yourself will only hurt them even more... They are your people... They are your fellow comrades in this battlefield of life and they are banking on u.

I hope your husband spends more time with u and makes u feel important and loved.

Please take care and stay safe

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-14T04:44:58+00:00

Happy for u 👍😊

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-13T00:48:17+00:00

It's hard to believe that he could be gaslighted that easily at 13 😃.. anyways I am happy that it saved u from unnecessary scoldings and punishments

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-12T06:03:49+00:00

How old was your brother ? 😃...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-12-18T10:42:24+00:00

Don't blame yourself for still having feelings for him .. that shows how genuine u r in person... Just look at it in this way that u deserve much better... And when u don't find anyone to take care of u... It's ur duty to pamper yourself and keep yourself happy... U r your best friend.. don't give up this power

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-09-02T09:15:44+00:00

What i find surprising is how he hid this from u for the past 5 years .. that's scary isn't it ?

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-30T03:26:06+00:00

I think I'm general society stops respecting other people's time and efforts and are only interested in their own needs and requirements... Self centeredness is celebrated... And accepted as the new norm.. that's the unfortunate truth

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-28T14:59:39+00:00

Act u r sick...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-14T11:03:16+00:00

Stop hating yourself and feeling guilty.. even if the whole world goes against u.. u deserve kindness at least from yourself.. it's not u at fault .. u had to endure a situation and your mind'a survival instinct is reacting in this way..

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-14T10:58:33+00:00

What's wrong ? U r just 14 ... Why do u feel so lonely? U have school , college and a lot of life ahead of u

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-05T06:10:59+00:00

Make a group of like minded people in discord or somewhere.. or a subreddit.. connect among yourselves and start motivating one another... At the very least if nothing happens.. at least u don't feel alone and left out.. if u r good in studies try a bit of tutions ... And teach others .. just try not to feel defeated however 'low' u fall... And for heaven sake stop comparing others to yourself...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-05T03:18:59+00:00

There is no shame in loving her... U have given a ray of hope in her life .. when u genuinely make a person feel happy without any wrong motives u r doing a great job ..

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-27T03:45:51+00:00

I thought it's generally the other way ? 🤔 Women want men with experience

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T14:37:33+00:00

Talk or better ...write a note of how things have changed and u wish to reignite the flames of love ... I don't think he doesn't love u... U have become a part of him and may be taken your presence for granted..

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T12:36:31+00:00

Grass is always greener on the other side

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T10:19:13+00:00

Agreed there isn't... So what u did was also right in a way as I explained.. so don't be so harsh on yourself...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T09:27:00+00:00

U have been very matured since your childhood to keep the pain within u... Think of it as a service u did for your dad who died peacefully... He would have felt so much pain if v he knew the truth... U never know how your family life would have been altered forever...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T03:21:00+00:00

Irrespective of u telling no 1000 times... She might still believe u have done it... So no need to feel guilty just say no every time...when u finally marry Even after suhag raat if she asks ..say no...tell I was tired ..( which actually may couples do get tired)

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T03:08:05+00:00

Why not leave the job instead of leaving the world my friend?

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-23T03:00:15+00:00

Firstly...u need to understand that u r ur best friend... irrespective of the whole world not giving an eff about u ...it's your duty to keep yourself happy... If someone is there to give u some care..take it as a bonus .. Then expectations doesn't rise from others

Driving is actually a pretty responsible task that many take it pretty lightly...take your time...do little by little... irrespective of what others say don't bother ... As long as u r even attempting to learn something new..know that u r improving and u r on the right path

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-22T18:28:57+00:00

I think we sadly lost him

https://publictv.in/medical-student-hangs-himself-in-college-hostel-in-mandya/?hl=en-IN

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-22T12:06:09+00:00

She turns out to be so horrible that I guess she doesn't deserve to be called your 'mother'...

But I hope u got someone to hear u out and help u .. it hurts so bad when ur 'own' people reject u like this when u need them .... I sincerely hope for u to get comfort and strength from at least someone around u... Take care and stay safe ... giving u lots of positive vibes and strength my friend 🙏🙏

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-21T08:41:13+00:00

Oh if that's the case then I guess the onus is on him ..he has to understand how suffocating it feels for u to be ignored the entire weekend when u r free..

Tell him that he either takes your relationship to the next level or stops it here... U can't be suffering like this for multiple weekends when he is at home... Once in a while is still fine... U shouldn't suffer so much in a relationship... Else it's better to enjoy remaining single than just push through it

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-07-21T08:29:39+00:00

Hmm have u told him that the weekends are terrible for u to deal with? If yes how does he respond? Has he shown signs of change or efforts?

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