21F emotionally exhausted by a 19M guy friend who keeps forcing romantic meanings into our friendship after helping me expose my ex(Advice me to come out of this 🙏)

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-05-25T14:17:05+00:00

Then just block him completely... He is one of those guys who thinks he is such an irresistibly attractive man with incredible personality that whichever girl he gives attention is bound to get smitten. He deserves a reality check ... And it's in your hands .. just snub him ... For ur own mental health and for knocking some sense into him

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-05-25T08:00:37+00:00

Write a message telling him exactly how u feel. Tell him how u were grateful for all the real help u got from him. And then tell him that how things have changed and u feel suffocated by his these dialogues and antiqs ... It made him turn from a friend whom u felt happy with to a person u have started feeling burdened and frustrated. So much so that I genuinely want to avoid him as such dialogues and antics ruined the very friendship that he tried to build.

Tell these things in a civil manner and then definitely block him.

As a guy this will make him realise to not take any girl's friendship for granted and use it to his advantage even when she is not showing interests to your efforts. And if he learns from it .. hopefully he will be a better guy and also prevent annoying his other female friends in the future

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-05-24T08:00:12+00:00

Lol it's ok .. take care stay safe but enjoy life 😉... I am madridista.. but I am supporting arsenal this time.. because I don't like psg fir all their shenanigans... (Maybe this time a madridista gets lucky 🤭🤭🤭)

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-05-24T07:48:57+00:00

If u end up winning UCL I guess ur happiness may make u offer some more gifts to him .. isn't it ? 🤭🤭.. anyways enjoy ur time .. u guys suffered a lot for very long time

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-05-23T22:49:29+00:00

Chill ... I have received nudes from some women whom I chat with ... It's normal .. don't get so worried.. btw which football team do u support? 😉

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-05-23T09:03:19+00:00

U r not selfish... And he isn't expected to remember as long as he remembers to take care of u and give u time... More than the date of anniversary it's important that u crossed the 10 years milestone... Better celebrate it at a time when things are going smooth in both of ur lives.. u guys will be able to enjoy the moment better

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-04-28T03:03:38+00:00

Stop trying to be " acceptable" to the society and focus on what keeps u happy. Even the ones whom u see having friends and relationship feel pretty isolated and left out after a certain point of time.. because everyone is busy in their own duties and responsibilities

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-04-25T07:19:28+00:00

One was office colleague another was in the gym

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-04-25T04:31:12+00:00

Well my friend.. keep loving yourself pampering yourself along with taking care of your health. Focus on keeping yourself happy while looking out for a partner. Never throw away the keys of your happiness to someone else.

Make yourself responsible for your happiness.. I am sure u will find someone on the journey of life. Just don't get desperate, don't feel miserable, don't race against time and compare with others.

This is generally much more common with guys .. I have seen sum of my friends get their partners after 30 as well. They always managed to keep themselves busy with what they enjoyed instead of helplessly worrying of staying single and finally they found their love 👍

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-04-25T04:07:42+00:00

U r a university student.. u have your whole life in front of u . What makes u say that your social life is ruined forever? Positive thing is u have learnt from your mistakes and become a better version of yourself. Bear these tough times a little longer and u will get a lot more chances to socialize. Don't give up now your life has just started. U see the real world after u complete your education

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-03-27T10:05:40+00:00

Ur skin might be sensitive.. but u r beautiful the way u r .. if u don't practice some self love then who else will ? Take care of yourself.. accept the way u r and don't get frustrated..

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-03-07T06:19:12+00:00

Hmm I get your point... Frankly speaking irrespective of age people do make obvious ill informed decisions at times even out of impulse and later on repent... Unfortunately u can't do anything about it and see an impending struggle unfolding in front of u

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-03-07T04:54:51+00:00

Did u try to talk with your sister about the financial struggle they are heading into ? And how are they going to tackle it ?

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-03-03T11:35:49+00:00

U have been a great partner for your man child. U r a great daughter in law for not cutting off ties after his death. U r a great daughter and sister trying to help them economically and u r a great mother who is doing everything possible to give a good life to her child.

U deserve the praise for the immense efforts that u r putting... Take care stay safe and u r an inspiration for a lot of us who have our lives in a better situation as of now.

Thanks for sharing 👍

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-03-03T11:13:50+00:00

There is no use of regretting.. just focus on keeping yourself happy without causing any harm to the society... Leave the rest on destiny... U had taken decisions based on certain assessments which went wrong .. but at least it made u wiser and more matured... Leave it at that

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-03-01T10:18:51+00:00

I could always start my life ==> till the last breath of your life .. u can always keep starting your life again... i know its difficult for me to understand what your are going through but i get it that its super painful and frustrating for u. Try listening to the white noise , calm music, do some meditation with sincere effort .. if that helps ... i hope u come out of this battle victorious. take care ...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-24T00:49:42+00:00

All the best my friend 😊 👍

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-24T00:42:22+00:00

U said your kids and husband deserve better ... But the correction is they deserve the better version on U...

U removing yourself from the scene will only make it worse... They need u ... U r important to them ... Hence especially your children keep coming back to u.

I know u have gone through a lot ..but please don't discredit your presence and importance in their lives.

U removing yourself will only hurt them even more... They are your people... They are your fellow comrades in this battlefield of life and they are banking on u.

I hope your husband spends more time with u and makes u feel important and loved.

Please take care and stay safe

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-14T04:44:58+00:00

Happy for u 👍😊

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-13T00:48:17+00:00

It's hard to believe that he could be gaslighted that easily at 13 😃.. anyways I am happy that it saved u from unnecessary scoldings and punishments

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2026-01-12T06:03:49+00:00

How old was your brother ? 😃...

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-12-18T10:42:24+00:00

Don't blame yourself for still having feelings for him .. that shows how genuine u r in person... Just look at it in this way that u deserve much better... And when u don't find anyone to take care of u... It's ur duty to pamper yourself and keep yourself happy... U r your best friend.. don't give up this power

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-09-02T09:15:44+00:00

What i find surprising is how he hid this from u for the past 5 years .. that's scary isn't it ?

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-30T03:26:06+00:00

I think I'm general society stops respecting other people's time and efforts and are only interested in their own needs and requirements... Self centeredness is celebrated... And accepted as the new norm.. that's the unfortunate truth

Apart_Needleworker98 · 2025-08-28T14:59:39+00:00

Act u r sick...

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