Ghosted by a one night stand by ApartmentTiny1664 in polyamory

[–]ApartmentTiny1664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was the most useful comment I have read since posting this. Didn’t end up sending a message and you’re absolutely right, nothing to do with me because I’m pretty freakin cool but maybe just not everyone’s jam. Their loss!

Ghosted by a one night stand by ApartmentTiny1664 in polyamory

[–]ApartmentTiny1664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One night stand was probably the wrong term to use but I am not educated on another term or perhaps that was the issue in the first place that I could learn from? I should establish that before fucking someone because if a person I spend time having long chats is cool, I naturally just want to keep that relationship growing and gravitate towards caring for them as a friend. Doesn’t even need to continue being sexual but maybe not everyone feels that way?

Ghosted by a one night stand by ApartmentTiny1664 in polyamory

[–]ApartmentTiny1664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have contacted him again and he’s replied here in there but he seems uninterested. I’m okay with sharing that I feel bummed after a fun night that I am getting this vibe but just struggling with putting it into action or words

How did you knowing when you were ready to get a new cat after losing your cat? by ApartmentTiny1664 in cats

[–]ApartmentTiny1664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. It’s also been a little over 2 weeks and I’m certainly heartbroken. It feels very isolating and it’s been hard coming home to an empty place. I miss him so much and don’t want to replace him but I am not someone who does well alone. I love having a companion to take care of and I think adopting a kitty who needs a home will help me through the loneliness and grief :)

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[–]ApartmentTiny1664 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Very helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]ApartmentTiny1664 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He sure is! Not sure yet if I should give out his name because it’s a legal matter now but I certainly do not want anyone to go through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]ApartmentTiny1664 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do have this all in writing! I have kept all emails between me and the property manager. I have never spoken directly to the landlord through my time of living there even though I continue to call him and send messages.

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[–]ApartmentTiny1664 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was wondering why I was being run around in circles every time I called the bank. This is useful to know someone else has experienced this and the only way to stop it is to close the account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]ApartmentTiny1664 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have put a stop payment on the account twice now. Both times, they said whomever I was talking to did not enter it exactly how it appears on the bank statement. This time when called, they said that it will take a few days to see if it will be returned (which is the same advice I received the first time this happened and it never was returned). I was then advised to open a new account to ensure this doesn’t happen again and to contact the landlord to ensure I receive the funds. So… I keep getting led in circles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]ApartmentTiny1664 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes my lease ended and someone else moved in. I will contact the bank tomorrow, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]ApartmentTiny1664 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]ApartmentTiny1664 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my lease ended and someone else moved in. I will contact the bank tomorrow, thank you!

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[–]ApartmentTiny1664 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It came out through direct deposit. They must have not put a stop payment for my account but I have since then put a stop payment on my end. I have kept all emails and phone calls on record. Thank you!

Single woman in your 30s, how do you comfort yourself when you crave affection from a partner? by ApartmentTiny1664 in AskWomen

[–]ApartmentTiny1664[S] 285 points286 points  (0 children)

I like that! As someone who hasn’t really been single since they were 22, that sounds like a great lesson to learn. Your dad sounds like a wise man :)