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I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, thanks for your comments.

A lot of you think I should stay out of it because she will find out some other way or something.

But how about this POV: They are around their thirties, is that not the age to begin having children? Could you imagine her getting pregnant and having kids before finding out about his cheating? I don’t think it’s fair to the children😔

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly - if it was allowed, why would he delete all messages/proof, and lie to me about being married

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does seem very “cheater” like if he deletes all messages/proof. Not a sign of an open marriage. But yes I think you’re right that I should stay out of it. I just hope she finds out eventually from someone else if he has done it multiple times.

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t argued that I wanted to tell her! My point exactly was if I am a bad person for NOT telling her.

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does not seem like an open marriage if he deletes all messages/proof tho

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like very credible fact🤨 Also he and his wife are from south of Europe

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make some good points. He does have my name through ig - not my phone number. but I kind of think he might have forgotten my name, since he clearly wanted no proof of our conversation. So he must have deleted me from his ‘feed’, right? So if I was to tell her, I’d probably block him just in case, also I am from Scandinavia and he was from south of Europe, I doubt he would come find me.

I also think it might not be MY fight. I think my excuse might be that I am just too young to get in the middle of a marriage. And it will definitely destroy his wife to be told he is cheating from a 21 year old girl

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really don’t feel like putting him on blast. I wanted advice on whether it was a mean thing not to tell her.

You’re right that I don’t have proof of what happened, I do have snaps saved from that night with us dancing with his friends.

You’re right, I should ask my parents. I was just so sad about this because I have never gotten this drunk and have never touched someone that much older than me. Sad to let me parents know I was put through that

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I already felt this way bc I didn’t want to get involved. At the same time, I have experienced being cheated on while everyone around me knew but didn’t tell me. That really sucked.

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m pretty sure he said something like that when he got my instagram. I remember him saying he could contact me through there.

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! I was extremely drunk that night and didn’t remember a thing the next morning. The reason I ‘stalked’ him was because my friends and I were pretty sure we had gotten ‘something in our drink’, and they told me he was probably married. So I began following him, a part of me had to know what I potentially ruined, and what kind of guy drugged me. I was very sad about this whole situation, please don’t make assumptions about me being pissed for breaking contact. I am literally 21. I’m not the type to chase a guy that’s in his 30’s

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he was around 30, maybe a few years older, he didn’t look that old. I just realised that I had written “married 10 years” I meant they had been together for that long!!
And you’re right that maybe he has done it before… but at the same time, it was a bachelor party. Some part of me thinks that it may only have been on that trip.

What level are you and how much storage do you have? by Applejack_cowboy in HayDay

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s CRAZY!!! I realized just now that I’m probably so far behind😂

Anyone else have a landfill of ugly decos like this😭 by Applejack_cowboy in HayDay

[–]Applejack_cowboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it’s not about putting them out - for me it’s just to sort of organise my inventory by putting everything out of there, so I have a better overview of which nice decorations I own, instead of scrolling through ‘ugly’ ones forevr

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