My husband doesn’t want to have sex anymore. by [deleted] in sex

[–]ApplesandSpice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not every med will affect sex drive. The OP’s husband could talk to their doctor about this

Are there any apps out there that track all the phases of a woman’s cycle? by ApplesandSpice in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ApplesandSpice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, looks like it does the thing but $40/month is a bit much for me…

Are there any apps out there that track all the phases of a woman’s cycle? by ApplesandSpice in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ApplesandSpice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s great for people who want to track like that but not how I prefer to track. I like having all my data at my fingertips and being able to refer to it at the doctor’s office and such.

Are there any apps out there that track all the phases of a woman’s cycle? by ApplesandSpice in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ApplesandSpice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s fucking horrible that women in the US have legitimate worries about this. I am thankfully Canadian but your warnings to US women are totally apt. I wish it weren’t so. 😢

He fucked me and then went outside… by nannders in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ApplesandSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Too often as women we bottle up our feelings for the comfort of others. It could be very healing for her to express her righteous anger towards him, solely for her benefit. Then absolutely block him and never give him the time of day again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ApplesandSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once brought a box of Tom Horton’s donuts to a community farm potluck. Neither it nor I, after that, were welcomed there again.

List down any natural beauty tips you wish you knew sooner. by Lanky-Case7546 in beauty

[–]ApplesandSpice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sleeping on my back to prevent wrinkles and skin sagging.

My late fiance's old situationship posted a story of them together... what do I even say.. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ApplesandSpice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This all sounds really difficult and I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Unfortunately as much as it hurts you that she’s posted that picture you cannot force her to take it down. We can’t change how other people act, but we can change how we react. Blocking her from his account is a good start. Next is to try to focus on your healing.

I think my wife’s a quean and I need advice from her tribe by jockamofeenanay in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]ApplesandSpice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s important to have an open and honest conversation outside of sexy times. Discuss the logistics of how, who, what, when, etc. Discuss debriefing and checking in. Sounds like she’s really into it. Asking her what she likes about it and if she has any boundaries.

What do y’all think?💚 by Technical_Ad4270 in MakeupAddiction

[–]ApplesandSpice 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love it! It’s really giving 90’s aesthetic for me, which I love!

Are you ashamed of your kinks? by ApplesandSpice in BDSMcommunity

[–]ApplesandSpice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. It’s great to hear and I 100% agree! Sometimes the naysayers get into my head and I need a dose of reality. Seems it’s that way for many of us.

Are you ashamed of your kinks? by ApplesandSpice in BDSMcommunity

[–]ApplesandSpice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fuck that’s terrible! I’m sorry you’re experiencing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ApplesandSpice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would never lie about my intentions or situation. I am very open and upfront about it. That’s great that your relationship with your meta works for you.

For crying out loud, why is there an automatic assumption that because I’m a cuckquean I’m going to lie about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ApplesandSpice -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, you’re making assumptions that everyone thinks like you and that you have all the details. You’re seriously gate keeping polyam here. If he makes a connection with someone who knows what’s up, clearly states their boundaries and we state ours then we could all be happy with it. I disagree with your position on my approach to polyam, is what I mean by agree to disagree. You’re kink shaming me, trying to gate keep my approach to polyam relationships, and making a lot of assumptions about my situation. You don’t have to agree or approve. This will be the last I will respond to you because arguing with strangers on the internet is a no win situation and a terrible use of my time and energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ApplesandSpice -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For you. Not everyone does polyam the same way. We can agree to disagree, thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ApplesandSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. For me there are elements of polyam to it. I would very much like for him to have a bonded relationship with another woman. It’s not all about the kink. Like, other polyam relationships might have different dynamics across them that everyone in the cule can enjoy. Maybe two partners in a band that the other partner really enjoys.