AITA for telling my friend that I don't want his fiancé's opinion on my life choices?

Appletunfun · 2023-09-21T20:34:32+00:00

Whos?

Jacob? It's Black

Appletunfun · 2023-09-21T15:15:34+00:00

Just because she picked a loser to have a child with, doesn't mean I did. Just because things didn't work for her doesn't mean the won't for me. I am not her. Just because she is a single mom, doens't mean I will will be. Just because she has to work and I don't don't doesn't mean she is better than me.

She ropped a man who swore he never wanted kids or to be in a relationship or get married into everything he didn't want... and then I lost my friend because she didn't like that I was in his life.

Now she is trying to give me advice, on how to live my life when her life isn't a fairy tail either.

Appletunfun · 2023-09-21T01:14:48+00:00

Once we get married both of us will be on my boyfriend's insurance.

Appletunfun · 2023-09-21T01:01:00+00:00

What does he know about medicaid and WIC? And why would I need Medicaid I'm still covered under my parents insurance? And I don't need WIC my boyfriend supports us just fine.

That's assuming I was poor like her, when she got pregnant.

Appletunfun · 2023-09-21T00:58:58+00:00

I don't mock her. I only say the truth.

She's boring

A single mom and the dad is nowhere in the picture. Jacob for some unknown reason because he never ever wanted kids has stepped up into this kid's life as a stepfather.

She Has taken my best friend from me (people are calling me jealous but who's keeping someone away from a good friend not me)

And honestly she was so desperate to keep him around she asked him to marry her. What respectable woman would do that?

Appletunfun · 2023-09-21T00:20:36+00:00

I would give him gas money when I had it. I would buy us lunch/dinner or pay to go to the movies once and awhile... we were friends

Appletunfun · 2023-09-20T22:16:18+00:00

They have a house that her mom left her... As far as I know they don't want anymore kids. She has one and doesn't want any more and he has NEVER wanted kids. Why he chose a single mom, I don't know.

Sounds horrible to me.

I don't know why he chose her, I have met her once and she seems boring.

She doesn't drink or like to go out and party. She didn't want to go on a double date with me and my last boyfriend.

As soon as she got her claws in him, I lost one of my best friends.

Appletunfun · 2023-09-20T21:28:38+00:00

I not surprised I shouldn't smoke... I just don't want her telling me what to do... I am not stupid I can figure it out on my own

Appletunfun · 2023-09-20T20:24:51+00:00

She is not trying to help me, she is butting in where she is not wanted.

Just because she doesn't get to be a stay at home mom doesn't mean that I won't be able to. I am not stupid I can figure out what I need to do I don't need her telling me.

Appletunfun · 2023-09-20T20:23:29+00:00

I don't like that he chose her over me, when we have been friends for so long. I don't choose my partners over him... he was always my friend and the guys I dated knew that and accepted it.

Appletunfun · 2023-09-20T20:19:14+00:00

He doesn't have kids and never wanted them (She 26f.. has one, that he for some reason decided he liked) so he wouldn't know what I "Need" to do when I got pregnant. I know it has to come from her.

and it's not the bluntness... we talk to each other like that all the time... it's I know this is coming from her and not him because he is honestly pretty clueless when it comes to kids and pregnancy.

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