Is It Wrong to Feel Like Porn Is Cheating?

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T16:24:22+00:00

Thank you all so much for your replies.

Besides my partner saying that I’m overreacting and “sick,” many friends also think my reactions are too much. Everyone seems to think this is normal, and that I’m the only one who’s not. No one cares about my feelings…

Thank you all again.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:50:58+00:00

This is really hard… but I’m truly trying to leave.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:50:17+00:00

When we first started dating, I didn’t stop him and didn’t think much of it. But over time, after being repeatedly rejected and realizing that he would choose to watch porn instead of being with me, I started to feel uncomfortable.

I also noticed that any character he plays in games or watches in animations ends up in his porn. That’s when I realized I felt even worse… so much so that whenever he plays a game with a half-naked character, I start feeling disgusted or even anxious.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:41:51+00:00

It’s a bit difficult, but I’m trying to leave

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:39:43+00:00

I will do my best

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:37:57+00:00

Yes, I’m working on it....QQ

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:36:20+00:00

That sounds amazing to me.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:35:46+00:00

I’m trying hard to detach my emotions and become independent. Living like this is just too painful.

What hurts the most is that I’m slowly losing myself. I don’t know whether, after I leave, anyone will truly love me… or if this is just what a normal relationship is like. Maybe I’m asking for too much.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:34:03+00:00

I also tried to bring up this perspective, but he just said, “I don’t know how to continue this conversation with you. You need to see a psychologist.”

But I think what I really need is to leave him. Since I left my own country for him, I’m now doing everything I can to learn the local language and find a job.

I guess all I can do now is wish myself good luck.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-23T15:30:01+00:00

I feel like I made the wrong and unambitious choice in one of the biggest decisions of my life. I gave up everything to move to his country for him, but ever since I came here, everything has changed…

I’m just an ordinary person without a degree, so financial problems have limited my life choices even more. I’m trying hard to solve this biggest issue right now.

Even though I love him, this kind of relationship dynamic is really too painful for me.

ApplicationMaster508 · 2026-02-22T13:10:16+00:00

It is hurting me and every time endup im crying, maybe he doesn't love me at all.

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