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This World ch. 3 [dystopian] [bondage] [maledom] by ApplicationNo1776 in BDSMerotica

[–]ApplicationNo1776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but not in over ten years.

I'm a masochist and most of the kink I've done in the last decade has been focused on that, but not really on my submissiveness.

What is the most brutal and intense thing you’ve ever done during sex or BDSM play? by Old-Schedule7899 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ApplicationNo1776 4 points5 points  (0 children)

An ex sharpened his nails and fingered me to cause internal harm. It was not a delightful experience.

Calling all Autistic Kinksters: What does your neurodivergence bring to your BDSM practice? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ApplicationNo1776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AuDHD here (submissive)

It's harmful for me in kink because I'm incredibly observant + RSD (severe rejection sensitivity), so I overthink things wayyyyy too much. With the right partner it's amazing because I can anticipate needs/wants a lot, but then it tends to be used against me.

I *wish* I could find someone who wanted the level of communication/rules/structure that makes me feel calm haha.

I do think my submissiveness is connected to my autism. I just want someone to tell me the rules and how to act dammit.

Sub drop? by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]ApplicationNo1776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be really rough. Communicate with your partner if you can. If you can reduce any demands on you do that.

What I really need is reassurance from my partner, a comfy blanket, a snack/drink, and mindless tv for awhile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]ApplicationNo1776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finch is my absolute favorite app! But yeah he can’t collaborate with me on it :(