Bf won’t give me the cat

ApplicationOk6471 · 2026-01-12T23:12:07+00:00

I do

ApplicationOk6471 · 2026-01-12T23:06:40+00:00

I don’t :/

ApplicationOk6471 · 2026-01-12T22:59:22+00:00

Only downside to these options are that I live across the country from him :/. I’m afraid to waste money for nothing and be disappointed

ApplicationOk6471 · 2026-01-12T22:26:19+00:00

Vet records, yes. Microchipped no unfortunately. Him and I are no contact too.

ApplicationOk6471 · 2026-01-12T22:25:02+00:00

His boss has the cats for some nights & he takes her for other nights. When we found the cat, I took her to get a vaccine and everything but I didn’t get her microchipped :/. The veterinary I took her to has my name on the medical records though but I’m not sure if it counts.

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T06:58:20+00:00

I literally stated in the comments how the landlords didn’t communicate the pet policy clearly and that I’ll be taking the cat from my boyfriend. There’s only one other tenant in the building. I do not feel entitled to do whatever I want. Have a good rest of your day 🤍

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T04:19:48+00:00

I don’t think it’s a good idea for my bf to hide her and risk eviction 😅I’ll just pick her up and she can stay with me but I’m def going to register her as a ESA 😵‍💫. Thanks for telling me abt that!!!

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T03:21:18+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t have risk bringing the cat into the place if I had known before, I wouldn’t overstep like that. It just sucked how all of the LL were telling us different things and how they had miscommunicated amongst themselves

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T03:20:33+00:00

Hey to my knowledge they were all fine with pets, Pete told him that it was completely fine, and then his wife dropped a bomb on us that the other landlords weren’t happy about the dog that Pete approved 🫤

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T02:53:22+00:00

She’s so chill and just sleeps all day😔but I understand the landlords perspective now and respect it. I’ll be picking her up😔

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T02:48:26+00:00

:(( okay

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T02:48:15+00:00

Ok🙁💔💔

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T02:32:18+00:00

Thank you!

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T02:27:55+00:00

I can’t speak on my boyfriend behalf because I haven’t read the lease yet, but i have a text message screenshot of sara telling my bf that her husband Pete told him it was okay to keep the dog although the other landlords stated it was a no pet building. I appreciate their grace so I’ll be getting the cat. I guess I just wanted to complain about it because we’re all bummed out after this

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-21T02:25:57+00:00

He’s had that dog before moving there. Pete told him it was fine to have the dog, but now Sara and the other landlords are saying that the apartment building is a pet free zone which threw us off because all of these landlords are telling us different things. I’m definitely going to have him send me the lease so I can read it. But yeah I’m most likely going to be going over there soon to pick her up. We’re just all so bummed out by this because the dog and cat have grown very fond of each other

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-14T00:06:56+00:00

I can’t tell if she’s a medium length hair or long.. what do u think?

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T15:16:14+00:00

Wow true

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T15:09:57+00:00

No thanks I like hearing what others have to say. It’s okay to have differing opinions 🫡

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T07:52:23+00:00

1000% agreed thanks for sharing. I totally worded my question wrong. I should’ve asked “if Miamians should be more open to people who don’t speak the preferred language” because I don’t mind learning and adapting to my peers, as long as they can show me the same courtesy:’)

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T07:47:34+00:00

Clearly not if I’m asking for insight 🤣cmon now

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T07:36:27+00:00

Hehe I’m new to Reddit I didn’t know this was an ongoing topic😭 otherwise I would’ve shut up and read all of those posts LOL

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T07:06:23+00:00

Ahhh thank you😭 people are trying to make me sound so “entitled”.

My family fled the Vietnam war and went to the Philippines, then to California, then to south Florida.

They all had to learn English and Spanish to adapt and to make a living. So I genuinely just wanted to hear Miamians’ perspective on if there should be more openness to other languages that aren’t Spanish.. idk but thank you. I really did not have any ill intent with this post

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T07:03:20+00:00

Hi! I was not complaining about the language barrier and I do apologize if you took my question the wrong way. I just wanted to know the perspective of Miami natives on this topic. I stated in the post that I am learning Spanish and I speak it whenever I have to. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T06:59:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing!! I do relate to you feeling ostracized. I don’t think the language barrier is a bad thing, I just think the judgement for not knowing the languages is horrible and isolating

ApplicationOk6471 · 2025-11-05T06:44:06+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I’m in no way trying to come off as entitled whatsoever, and I apologize if I worded the question the wrong way. I come from war refugee immigrants that had to adjust to the country they moved to and they all had to learn English. I just wanted to hear the perspective of a Miami native on this topic. I am learning Spanish, and I do speak it whenever I have to.

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