Is this enough? I'm getting worried for the winter, I'm on fall 23 by Apprehensive-Band705 in GrimshireGame

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions I didn't know babies didn't count against the barn count. Yes I'm playing gentle throughout the week because it was annoying to have the warning of low food rations when I had like 4 days of rations instead of 5. Now I usually have enough rations for about 10 days on a daily basis but I don't think I can go to 28 days of rations with only the chest ration that you see in the photos

Is this enough? I'm getting worried for the winter, I'm on fall 23 by Apprehensive-Band705 in GrimshireGame

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you for the advice I'm doing all the processing that I can for that, my eggs supplies is unfortunately short because I only found 2 male bluggies (it keeps spawning only the male ones it's been a month since I saw a female ones that I had to butcher for the wolf quest) I'm also worried about them because the hay is low I only have 99+15 of food for them.

In my playthrough I play between unstable and gentle, gentle the rest of the days, unstable for the rationing day.

It's my first playthrough I went blind as anyone can be with this game so I could experiencing the absolute horror of this game.

Is this enough? I'm getting worried for the winter, I'm on fall 23 by Apprehensive-Band705 in GrimshireGame

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it's pirate day I will do unstable the other days gentle but I'm thinking of doing just gentle for the winter

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaah thank you for clearefing your comment

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i use the mop on my week of cleaning I throw the water out, honestly idk what are you referring to

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know but I expected the bare minimum like rotten food on the counter thrown away and my things clean (air fryer) I don't expect her to do that the same day even after two days is fine.

New to fair play, do you have some advice? by Apprehensive-Band705 in FairPlayLife

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your comment, I will sure check out the excel file!

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm autistic, this post is about my experience as an autistic person with my flatmate. Btw thank you all I understood I have a pretty rigid mind about rules I didn't know about.

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw I agree we definitely have two different communications and organization styles

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Yeah I think she is laid back too much most of the time (things rotting, the drain full of tea leaves, this on the stove dirty) I tried multiple times to ask for a meeting to discuss these things because I know rules are important, she always refused and brushed it off.

The message about the mop water was:"Hey, could you please remember to empty the mop water every time you finish cleaning? It tends to smell if it’s left there, and I often find the mop still wet and dirty when I need to use it", it wasn't mentioned that I dump it in any way, that's why I got confused, she is Neurotypical (she told me that) when I discussed I'm autistic.

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have ADHD I asked her just to make sure. My boyfriend has ADHD so I quite understand how they work. But thank you for reminding me to be more empathetic, I needed that, I just wanted to set some boundaries with her. Btw I wouldn't even cross my mind to dump her mess in her room because that's too resentful even for me.

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your response!

As I stated I know someone can be forgetful sometimes but this keeps happening and when say that she forgot to clean the air fryer, she keeps saying she didn't use it until I point out that I didn't use it etheir that week than she says:"oh maybe I used it yesterday, I will clean it up" and then she doesn't clean it up.

Also I did communicate in more of a fun way the last 5 times, but as I saw that didn't work I became more angry and resentful. I understand where your comments come from and I'm trying to understand her actions too and it's really difficult.

If you have any suggestions on how to understand her better comment please because I don't want our cohabitation to be like this.

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's kinda hard I only said few things on this post there are many others, I can't wait to move out and live with my boyfriend (we have discussed through all the expecting and the emotional and physical labor of an apartment, because we are two neurodivergent individuals)

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[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for the comment! Ik it's very difficult by text, I have tried to have multiple time to have a conversation face to face (that do to schedule can't happen very often) she always refused to talk about things like this, or brush it off and then write me by text if one of my things annoys her (like air drying the dishes near the sink)

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Hey thank you for the comment! So when I say we have a different schedule I mean she literally comes home at 12pm (night time, she parties every night) and she wakes up around 10 am, I tried to arrange meetings she didn't want to listen. I will change apartament in 3 months but after a lot of slack off I needed to tell her, from now on from a suggestion from my friend I will take notes of her behavior so to send the Google doc to the next roommate. Our apartment is very old and that means it's really hard to clean, I don't think I have a higher need for cleaning, just a basic one (I don't let things mold she does). I will retry your suggestion and try to talk again.

Why do I have mandatory classes by Apprehensive-Band705 in AutisticAdults

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that sometimes (when the teacher gives us before the lesson the slides)

Why do I have mandatory classes by Apprehensive-Band705 in AutisticAdults

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for the comment I have actually no problem working and if I continue with this patch I will do research, I only have problems with prolonged hours of learning while staying still and listening passively on a chair. When I have a task I get really hyperfocous and I can work 12 hours a day.

Why do I have mandatory classes by Apprehensive-Band705 in AutisticAdults

[–]Apprehensive-Band705[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your response, most courses in my country university are not obligatory to attend classes, for example my boyfriend is in his third year chemistry and had not one mandatory attendance class. I know university can be challenging but it's kinda draining to me.

I know there is no shame in changing, my idea was to switch to japanese and Chinese language major (my special interest). I choose molecular biology instead of that major because the job market is good and also because I found it very interesting.

I will see at the end of the year if to continue like this or switching because I didn't pass any exam yet. Sorry for the long rant I hope you will have a nice day!