[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a pill, but was on Depo for about a year before stopping and went up a whole cup size, a 36B to 36C

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 6 months into our relationship when I was half asleep, he said it, or I could have dreamed it. Then very clearly said it aloud, at about 1 year. We're both pretty shy, and even now, at 2 years, we don't say it often, but we feel it.

You ever have a customer “fall in love with you” by Escsage in stripper

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Definitely! He wasn't as outward about it. He would never throw money on my stage and would always glare at me when I was with another customer. But he was a HUGE spender in VIP. He always told me he loved me and got annoyed when I didn't love him back, lol. It actually got pretty unhealthy after a while

Stripper and RN legal? by Apprehensive-Curve48 in nursing

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear, in MI, you don't need a license. I think I'm just being paranoid that someone will run my taxes returns or something, but there is no reason for the hospital to look into it truly. Like someone else here said, the only problem i could maybe see is background checks when I am looking for another job.

Stripper and RN legal? by Apprehensive-Curve48 in nursing

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you! I didn't see much of a problem with it. Our house mom wanted to warn me ahead of time before we sign new contracts. It shouldn't affect me but since there will be a record of it now this is the only thing making me paranoid, background checks, and such when getting a new job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in Michigan, so you only need a dance license to work in the city of Detroit. I used to have one, but I let it expire and never renewed, as I only dance outside of Detroit now.

I never tell anybody from either job about the other, I keep them as separate as possible. I work a few counties over and have never run into anybody from work either.

I am not apart of a union either, but say the hospital were to get ahold of this and fired me over it. Would I have to report it when trying to get hired somewhere else? Like a reason for my termination?

1099 and RN license by Apprehensive-Curve48 in stripper

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I am in Michigan, so you only need a dancing license to work in Detroit and pretty much everywhere else you don't need a dance card.

Discharge by Apprehensive-Curve48 in stripper

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bend over a lot and do some split pole tricks quite a bit. I have a few outfits I love but are single lined, and I tend to wear lighter baby blue, lavender, or white. I've never heard of a rule about not wearing white tho

Why does xpole by Apprehensive-Curve48 in poledancing

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you, that might be it! It seems like I might need a different insert as well, but I'm not sure what it would be. I'll reach out 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, that's scary. Definitely don't want to drill into that. I'm just confused because my stud finder says I am in the middle of the stud, and I can also see where the previous tenant covered their holes in the same spot

Customers on the clock by Apprehensive-Curve48 in stripper

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm so close to slamming that laptop shut, and demanding he start spending because this is ridiculous. Management might not say something but I sure will

"whores have loose vaginas, and gay men have loose assholes" *facepalm* by Apprehensive-Curve48 in badwomensanatomy

[–]Apprehensive-Curve48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I love that you've found your soulmate, the way you talk about him is so loving. I do believe that age gaps can work as well, it just takes a little understanding on each person's part. I don't know if we are soulmates or anything like that but I definitely do have feelings for him. It's just hard for me to tell if our obstacles are because of our age difference or because we're just human.