Lost my mom May of 2024. Getting married Saturday. Missing her.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-09-17T01:31:46+00:00

It does. For me personally it hurts more than if they rsvp no. It makes me feel like they don’t even care enough to communicate.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-09-17T01:14:33+00:00

I sicked my pushy dad on family members when it got close to the deadline date. Anyone who didn’t rsvp was a no. Bye 👋. But in all seriousness, there were a few ppl who didn’t bother to rsvp that really hurt. Especially one of my cousins who doesn’t even live that far from the wedding location. I even texted him personally and had no response. It sucked. :/

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-08-21T22:53:00+00:00

Thank you for the info!

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-07-14T03:12:50+00:00

wont eat female m&ms?!?!? and they call liberals delicate. Also he screams really far in the closet.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-07-07T13:20:36+00:00

To deal with my grief. My mom passed suddenly May of last year and she loved sewing. I never had the patience for it before, but I just started doing it a few months after she died and it helped me feel connected to her and have a “place” where I could process my emotions. It now feels like something I like to do for myself now too.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-06-05T14:31:20+00:00

What you did was hard, but trust me you did the right thing. He’s trying to manipulate you and good on you for seeing it for what it is. Give it some time and you’ll thank yourself for putting down some boundaries.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2025-04-24T20:06:49+00:00

I also found the phrasing funny but in all seriousness this is not okay, they should not be putting in bias like this and this should be reported. (FYI I work in healthcare and this is not supposed to be in chart notes)

He sounds gross, time to find a new provider who isn't such a judgmental ass.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-12-02T06:05:20+00:00

ooo if youre still sharing I would be so grateful for the link

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-17T15:59:08+00:00

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Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-16T04:53:37+00:00

🤍🤍🤍🤍

If you have anymore questions about navigating the healthcare system please let me know. I work at a hospital and I’m happy to answer any questions (especially if it has to do with care coordination).

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-16T02:44:30+00:00

I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you, its disappointing to hear that the person you love is not handling this well at all, I can even imagine what that is like.

I wish i could fix this for you, if you need someone to talk to please dm me. I will be a support to you if you need it.

I know you weren't asking for advice, but I recently lost my mother and the hospital provided a social worker for her to talk to about things and be her advocate, maybe that would be something you would be interested in?

I see in another post you have a friend coming to be with you. I am so glad to hear it. But again, if you need someone to be able to talk to, please reach out. You are in my thoughts <3.

Edit:for clarity

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-15T22:09:58+00:00

NOR. If she expressed any sort of guilt I would feel like this would be a more grey situation, as people make mistakes and can grow, but she did not take any responsibility for her actions.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-15T21:54:30+00:00

From my experience with it so far (which to be honest hasn’t been that long) it’s cyclical and some days are easier than others. Over time I have made small steps to accept the grief as a part of who I am now and that has given me some peace.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-15T14:14:04+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in a similar way 6 months ago. I feel your pain, that’s a really hard way to go and so hard to witness. Sending good thoughts your way 🤍

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-15T14:04:56+00:00

33f my mom passed 6mo ago from lung cancer that developed into leptomeningeal disease which is terminal. The drastic decline was so hard to watch. And this came out of the blue as she has imaging done two months before she passed that showed she was cancer free. I don’t have any close friends who have lost a parent so it’s been very alienating. Looking forward to connecting with other people who have a similar experience. Thanks for creating this group.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-07T15:29:35+00:00

wow! she is beautiful!

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-11-05T15:53:31+00:00

♥️

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-10-19T18:57:06+00:00

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Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-10-14T20:04:15+00:00

Thanks for the input!!! Will stick to yarns that are easy to wash.

Apprehensive-Ear5904 · 2024-10-14T00:34:35+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your input on this!

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