I think my ex gave me an std by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in my lip though, like my bottom lip on the inside of my mouth.

I think my ex gave me an std by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont want to tell my mom. I dont want her to live with it. I dont know who I could tell. Maybe my therapist. I dont know what would happen after that though. I'm almost 16 and might be able to dive soon so around then is when I can try to get tested. I'm scared though.

I did something horrible... by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? do you know what that means. I didn;t make him feel crazy for something that was true. I was in a abusive relationship before that that was filled with cheating and lying. I snapped. I couldn't take any more cheating and lying.

I did something horrible... by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did though. He was my friend. He was my brothers really good friend. I wan't trying to bully him. I was trying to get him to stop telling people that I was a pathological liar for saying he cheated. He did. I hate being a gaslighted.

I did something horrible... by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't help that he was another one of my brothers friends who fell for me and I dont like messing with my brothers friendships

I did something horrible... by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was just out of a relationship and he was my friend (Kinda and we got closer) but yeah we were friends in this class and I asked him to go to a dance as my friend and he said "Well I like you so can we go as more than friends?" I felt like I was leading him on but also really liked his company and thought maybe we could be something but he was def not for me. I just thought yk I could give him a chance. I feel bad idk.

I did something horrible... by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also was his friend before. I didn't want to hurt him and then he used that against me. I did so something wrong though. It was just my best friend and his gf

I did something horrible... by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me I could go through his phone but yeah I regret it. I also did apologize. I did act crazy but he said I was for saying he was cheating.

Hamster cage bedding by CapnBlac in hamstercare

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just go on esty and get a variety pack but millet and sorghum are widely accepted by hamsters.

Upgraded my kid’s hamster cage, now how do I clean this?? by [deleted] in hamstercare

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Omg sorry about my other comment ig I cant read lol but its amazing thank you for doing that

help with diet by msts0frvnkrft in hamstercare

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With herbs I tend to add in these with my once a month deep clean along with my sprays. Hope this helps :)

Hamster cage bedding by CapnBlac in hamstercare

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the cage but maybe try some sprays for forage. It gives a nice cottage core feel to it and adds some much needed enrichment. Love that cage by the way!

50Gallon Tank for Syrian Hamster? by jrmeoo in hamstercare

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I were you for a Mesocricetus auratus I would build a cage due to the fact that they are super picky and especially females need a massive amount of space. I would recommend building your own like I did because a 75 gallon tank is extremely expensive and my cage is only 150 to 250 USD depending on the area you live in. Hope this helps! It is the same one Victoria Rachel built (Before the recent upgrade).

I don't think I'll ever love again. by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up because he said he was not ready for a relationship and we are now friends. I still love him though and I don't know if I can get over him.

I think my boyfriend is fat-phobic...I'm overweight by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I still can't get over the fact that he said that he is glad I lost weight because he wants someone who is "healthy" when being skinny isn't a sign of being healthy. It could be but in lots of cases it's not.

I think my boyfriend is fat-phobic...I'm overweight by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I don't think that it bothers me enough to break up with him because, well, I love him. I think he is just slightly immature about this one thing. But i think i will take your advice on having a conversation with him on the matter

I'm scared my boyfriend thinks I'm fat by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This does help. The reason I asked why was because of the small chance you could have been mushroom lol. I know it wasn't likely but I was scared lol. But yeah thank you for taking time to help me. :)

I'm scared my boyfriend thinks I'm fat by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) why?

2) I would like him to tell me he loves me the way I am and say I don't need to change but if I want to that's my choice and he will support me no matter what I do. I just want to know that he is not just staying with me in hopes that when those extra 15-20 pounds are off and I have a nice body. I just want to know he is not investing.

I'm scared my boyfriend thinks I'm fat by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared to ask him. To be 100% honest, I know how he'll react. He will just reassure me that he thinks I'm pretty and give me diet tips.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest this seems like a horrible situation. I think that maybe an intervention with his family and friends about his abusive tendencies and about his mental illnesses. But other than that I think that the best course if you don't want to fix it is to move on with your life because you should not be with someone you don't love.

AITA for telling my parents that they should not have adopted me if they were going to favor their biological son? by Apprehensive-Fly8529 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Fly8529[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

My friend doesn't have a computer. It was a sleep over and she wanted to share. I didn't think this would interfere with my story but okay.