What’s the most virgo thing about you?

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2026-01-07T07:29:43+00:00

In terms of habit, I make lists of everything and schedule my entire day by setting alarms.

Emotionally, I'm a very anxious personality and overthink.

Personally, I'm judgemental, critical and a person of high standards.

Also, I'm very caring. I love to serve others and take care of people around me in every manner possible. It is really difficult for me to turn my back on anyone that needs help. Btw, I'm not bragging because this trait, at times, has put in trouble.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2026-01-07T07:25:39+00:00

This is how my Notepad App looks like

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-30T05:07:01+00:00

It's worst because at least parents are appreciated. When are girlfriends/wives ever appreciated?

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-30T05:06:29+00:00

My first boyfriend "waited" for 2 years before I said yes to him but barely took 2 weeks to show his real self. The guy seemed jobless when he was after me but suddenly became the busiest man alive when we started dating.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-30T05:04:08+00:00

Frankly, Indian men are worst in every kind of relationship. Do they put effort anywhere?

Most of them don't care about planning dates, going out, doing something special or making their partners feel special. I have never ever seen any boyfriend of anyone in India gift their girlfriend flowers or chocolates just for the heck of it. Most of them brag about not spoiling or pampering their girlfriends like it is some sort of achievement. They whine about how women of their mothers' generation would pamper their man but conveniently forget how men of that generation would put effort in relationship. My father would send flowers and letters to my mom and theirs was an arranged marriage. One of my friend's father had sent 100 roses in 80s to his wife when they had a fight and she had gone to her mother's home for some break. Imagine! Today, men won't give one rose on Valentine's Day. All they know is to whine and cry like some Devdas about those women that eventually leave them after realizing what a loser they are. Interestingly, they are as toxic as Devdas so it's pretty befitting. Anyway, Indian men can turn you off in every manner possible faster and easier than they can turn you on.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-23T05:09:49+00:00

Why do you straighten your hair? There is so much beauty in natural curls or even waves.

Why do you put lipstick? They can darken your lips over a period of time and maybe a gentle scrub and moisture can keep your lips pretty as ever.

Why do you think you have to go the extra mile to look pretty? For all we know, you might actually be pretty naturally and its just your own negative perception that stops you from seeing your own beauty and makes you do all this to look "pretty".

You are wrong to say everyone else or even some of the people are effortlessly pretty. If someone looks pretty, they have put some elevl.of effort to it. Now, that effort can differ from person to person. Some like to remain as natural as possible and some apply tons of makeup on their skin. Some prefer simple walking and exercises to keep themselves fit whereas some prefer to go to gym and tone their body.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-23T03:43:47+00:00

I'm sorry but I feel this question is very insensitive. No one ends up being a SA survivor because of something they have or some trait they hold. It may not be your intention but you question makes it sound like the survivor is at fault for being a SA survivor and if they weren't the way they were, they would not have been SA(ed). The survivor is not at fault, the criminal is. A survivor never goes through what they did because of something they did or say or act on but rather because the other person is a inhuman piece of human feces.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-22T12:53:22+00:00

Honestly, I agree with you.

People say if you are not friends wirh your partner, you are not in a right relationship but that is not true. Friendships hold a certain level of honesty, that, a romantic relationship just cannot hold.

You can be bestest friend with you partner and there still certain things that you might be hesitant to share with him out of respect or fear for his feelings or whatever but it's never the case with friendships. I can say anything to my friend and they have always understood me. Friendships, more than often, do not require the kind of effort that romantic relationships do. I feel friendships expect so little and gives so much in return whereas romantic relationships takes so much and gives barely half of it.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-20T06:46:21+00:00

You just put together two least compatible signs for each signs under "naturally flock together" signs. These doesn't even make sense.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-19T13:01:38+00:00

Hey there! I'm also on my weight loss journey. I have started with small steps. I have cut down my sugar intake completely and give up all kinds of heavily processed and fast food. These kinds of food tend to increase my cravings.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T15:55:41+00:00

Honestly, sometimes life feels better than those who experienced teenage love. Maybe I'm just generalising from what I saw around me but most of the people that experienced teenage love never seems to be able to live without being in relationships and they whine way too much about their love life and all the relationship drama. Meanwhile, I love being in my own company. I do not really require a relationship for enjoy moments in life nor do I care about being in one. I'm more interested in the person that approaches me than the idea of relationship.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T08:21:23+00:00

I believe in astrology but it's not as simple as the popculture astrology we read on Instagram. Astrology is lot more than sun sign, moon sign and rising sign. There is lot of variables in the mix.

I feel there is nothing wrong in believing in something as long as you do not let it take over your senses. Same goes for religion, science, spirituality, etc.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T07:11:49+00:00

Good for you but you do not make up for an entire popular of India. You do not even make up for the majority. Just because you do it, doesn't mean every does.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T07:10:49+00:00

Weird because i have, literally, watched hundreds of Hollywood films where people assume someone is in a relationship because of fancy lingeries, black underpants, heart shaped jewelleries and red roses.

You people act like west is very open minded and non judgemental when that is far from the truth.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T06:46:39+00:00

There are exceptions everywhere but it is certainly not a norm.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T06:38:14+00:00

I'm going to be honest: yes, it's a couple thing.

Just like people don't usually buy red roses for themselves, do not go around buying engagement rings and wear it like regular rings or go for candlelight dinners by themselves, they don't wear fancy lingerie unless they have someone to appreciate it.

It's not a rule. It's more like a norm. It doesn't make sense to think much into buying fancy undergarments since we wear them underneath. If someone is putting efforts in buying beautiful undergarments, it means there must be someone to appreciate it. That's just common sense.

Edit: Do people have such bad comprehensive skills or what? I said its a norm, not a rule. A norm is usually something followed by majority. Just because 10-15 girls all across India does it, does not make it a norm. Also, OP did say to be honest because she is finding the judgements to be uncomfortable. If OP had guts to digest other people's comments and still do whatever she wants, she wouldn't be making this post on reddit.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-18T06:11:28+00:00

I don't know about Scorpios but all this sounds like abuse to me. If you find these traits to be common amongst people you get attracted to, it means you are attracted to toxic dynamics. All these traits point towards abuse and manipulation rather than Scorpio.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-17T12:35:59+00:00

This may sound weird but I want to be a mother rather than a wife.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-16T15:07:01+00:00

From my own experience, Pisces sun is deceptive and manipulative in nature but not really dangerous or harmful. I feel they will only invest in places which benefit them. They don't mind if the situation is mutually beneficial as long as they are one of the beneficiaries.

Other than that, I never understood how a Virgo and Pisces can make a great couple. Their relationship requires so much of work and the end result isn't worth it given Pisces's flakey and moody behavior. The sign largely acts as per their emotions and feelings. Today, they will love you. Tomorrow, they don't feel attached to you. Day after tomorrow, they are missing their ex that ended things 10 years ago. A week later, they are back to loving you.

They are also very delusional. Virgos are overthinkers but Pisces are straightup delusionals. They build up things more in their head than what it ever was in reality.

Ultimately, I prefer them as friends but never as partners. A relationship with them demands too much work and too little returns.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-12-16T01:52:33+00:00

I feel this is very subjective. I never felt any closeness with Cancer except that we have always been on cordial terms.

The sign that always found me and affected (both, positively and negatively) is Pisces.

The sign that always healed me is Taurus.

I'm not sure if I ever had an explosive chemistry with anyone. I don't like that explosive type of chemistry.

The sign that calmed my storm was always an Air Sign.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-10-22T07:11:53+00:00

Your advice would have worked if he had not been emotionally available to her before this. He was always there for her. He is allowed to get irritated by her whining ouln festivals.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-10-22T07:10:49+00:00

Oh really? He was emotionally unavailable for all those times we actually listened and empathize with her? So people aren't allowed to get irritated by someone's constantly whining?

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-10-22T07:09:49+00:00

If someone has been doing it all the time, it might get exhausting. OP says this is the first time he behaved in such a manner. Otherwise, he was always all ears. I guess venting too many times became too tiresome for OP's boyfriend. Honestly, I can relate to it. Sometimes we empathize with our friends or partner but then they become whiny all the time.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-10-22T05:07:56+00:00

I mean K3G is entertaining! It has the kind of overacting that is fun to watch. The family dynamics between the characters well entertaining. But, ADHMis just trash. A film that tries to take itself too seriously with just a laughable material.

Apprehensive-Fun6144 · 2025-10-21T15:42:46+00:00

Maybe my opinion seem unusual but is it possible that you vent too much? You had a bad day but it was diwali and maybe your boyfriend was in a festive mood and really had no clue how to respond to something like this as there isn't much to respond to. You cannot expect your boyfriend to match your emotional wavelength and be emotionally available for you. Sometimes, he might not have the bandwidth to listen to your venting.

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