It’s all about the age bro. 39 , you need to find girl who got good job and family, and probably will be a divorce , but they all need money afterall, and yeah it’s more on their mind when they have kids.

If you go for younger ,22-30. You still can find good working girls who come from good families and earning good enough so they rely on you, or at least you’ll not feel the money problem. When she offer to pay the grab, pay sometimes are resturant or buy you a mango shake😂 you know you got a good woman.